got surprising feedback from teammate without asking
today my teammate approached me saying her goal for this year is to give people more feedback. then she asked me why i didnt go to yesterday’s meeting. i said i dialed in online. she said: is that because i slacked you if you are coming? i replied: no, i was going to dial in anyway. she then confronted with me why i joined at 9:30 instead of the beginninh (8:30am). I defended myself 8:30 is welcome and breakfast time. i dont see a point to dial in so early. after that, she still kept selling her points that she hope i can go to meetings in peron instead of dialing in. eventually i had to say ok.
she’s not my mentor or manager. we just work on the same team. I am feeling weird about these feedback from her. people dial into meeting all the time, especially that early. and do people give feedback without being asked?
what do you all think?