i like this girl

Amazon mofer
Sep 10 40 Comments

but she doesn’t seem to be interested. not even interested to hang out as a friend. ofcourse she didnt say it directly but she shows 0 interest. Doesnt responds to my text promptly. when i ask if she wants to hangout this weekend, she comes up with some excuse.

Should i jus give up and move on ? or should i keep trying ?

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TOP 40 Comments
  • Google Ben Dover.
    Yes. Move on.
    Sep 10 2
    • Amazon jtwotwo
      something you should have learned in high school or similar...
      Sep 10
    • Google Ben Dover.
      I’ve been in the exact same boat as OP around 6 months ago. I couldn’t stop thinking about this girl. She’d always dodge my messages and give stupid excuses when I’d ask her to meet me. She’d occasionally meet me and give hints and string me along. One day I thought fuck it and just blocked her. Never looked back since.
      Sep 10
  • Amazon Rabidsheep
    Move on. Don't be a creepy stalker weirdo.
    Sep 10 0
  • Google tc=10e-1
    if you don't give it a try, you won't have a chance.

    if you try harder,

    nope, you wouldn't have a chance still.
    Sep 10 2
    • Microsoft [rummikub]
      Very inspiring 🙂
      Sep 10
    • Google tc=10e-1
      [insert meme: I know that feel, bro]
      Sep 10
  • Microsoft wtfdudes
    Move on. Don’t be that guy.
    Sep 10 0
  • Ness Technologies __|__
    lot of fish in the sea. Don’t have to deal with dead fish
    Sep 10 2
    • LinkedIn
      tendies

      LinkedIn

      BIO
      sex work, quantum computing, and crypto HFT
      tendiesmore
      Not if the guy is ugly. Then there are 0 fish in the sea.
      7d
    • Amazon / Eng SmkWdEvyDy
      I've seen tons of ugly guys with girls. I mean, I have a girlfriend.
      7d
  • Amazon / Eng SmkWdEvyDy
    Movies and TV and culture in general paint a picture that if you're just goofy and never give up you'll win over the girl. And it's cute in a romcom, but in real life it's just creepy.

    Again, I get where the idea comes from. It's a cultural meme that guys need to win women over. But at the end of the day, she's either interested or she ain't. And in this case she clearly ain't. Move on.
    Sep 10 0
  • Broadcom Ltd. ali_mama
    Move on for now, improve yourself, hit the gym, HARD. Work hard as well, chase that TC. In the weekends, go out and meet people, meet girls, just have fun. In a few months if you still like her, shoot her a text.
    Sep 10 2
    • New / Eng
      cartier

      New Eng

      PRE
      Salesforce
      cartiermore
      cringe
      7d
    • LinkedIn
      tendies

      LinkedIn

      BIO
      sex work, quantum computing, and crypto HFT
      tendiesmore
      Lmao
      7d
  • Microsoft highqua
    Don’t waste time on her. Move on, other girls are right there.
    Sep 10 0
  • Intel / Finance LC_ups_TC
    See if the 'naked man' trick from Barney Stinson playbook works, if not then just move on

    https://youtu.be/1Cg62TySYvk
    Sep 10 2
    • Google tc=10e-1
      oh bring back memories
      Sep 10
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      The naked man was not from Barney Stinson... He actually failed miserably...
      7d
  • Booz Allen Hamilton / Consultant quartz816
    Move on. It might seem difficult but it's worth it. Every second you spend focusing on this woman that wont give you the time of day is time you could be spending finding a girl that's excited to talk to you. Literally billions of women out there.
    Sep 10 0
  • Salesforce Bag Head
    Never give up, never surrender!
    7d 2
    • Roku cruella
      Keep harassing while keep feeling like shit.
      7d
    • Microsoft wtfdudes
      @salesforce by grabthars hammer by the sons of warvan youuu shalllll beee avennnnnnged!
      7d
  • Microsoft LowT😩
    Well, I want to go out with Alexandra Daddario. But she doesn't. So I moved on. Same story.
    Sep 10 2
    • SAP dwEC83
      phew for a moment i thought i read "alexandria ocasio"!
      7d
    • Microsoft LowT😩
      🤮 I wish that misfortune not even to my enemies. But if she doesn't open her mouth (literally and figuratively), she's pretty though
      7d
  • eBay / Product bas
    If i like you and you invite me to hang out, i will go. If i can't, i'll arrange the next time. If i don't, i'll come up with an excuse.
    If i like you, i will reply to your message. If i don't, i wil reply to your message. Ignoring is just rude. If i like you i will ask questions and do one too many :) faces. If i don't like you, i will reply, short sentences only. Bare minimum.
    The End.
    Sep 10 1
    • Visa
      AlKelly

      Visa

      BIO
      .
      AlKellymore
      True dat
      Sep 10
  • Meetup svk837
    > Should i jus give up and move on ? or should i keep trying ?

    Sorry my dude, just move on. The whole "keep trying" thing is only for movies. In real life, you just end up making the situation uncomfortable for everyone.

    It's a big world out there, don't run this into the ground.
    7d 0
  • Apple
    TWB-tWBu16

    Apple

    BIO
    I’m a software engineer. Right now my job is focused on full stack web dev but I love everything related to tech
    TWB-tWBu16more
    People send signals about how they are feeling without using words. When someone doesn’t respond much or doesn’t hang out with you much, that is a signal. In this case the signal says “I am not romantically interested in you. Please don’t ask me out or I might feel unsafe”
    Sep 10 0
  • Roku cruella
    Really? U have to ask when u spelled out the answer yourself?
    Sep 10 0
  • New / Eng
    cartier

    New Eng

    PRE
    Salesforce
    cartiermore
    move on, some guys don’t ever get social cues
    Sep 10 0
  • SAP dwEC83
    buy a guitar and a do a serenade under her balcony every evening!
    7d 0
  • Orbital Insight 🔀#️⃣🔁
    Read “How to get a date worth keeping”
    Sep 10 0
  • Facebook eng-22
    Move on.
    7d 0