Like the title says. What is the cutoff where women will date a man vs won’t consider him? My female friend who is 5’1 (and attractive) told me she wouldn’t consider any man below 5’10 (if he is really cute) or 5’11 because she wants her kids to have a chance of not being short. Another fenale friend who is 5’3 or maybe 5’4 (whom is overweight) told me solid 6’ is her cutoff so “she can feel protected”. they both told me looks, personality, family, wealth, job are very important too, but the first factor they consider is height. Being 5’7.5 maybe 5’8 on a good day, it really sucks being alone for years and I know it is due to my height. I work out, eat clean, have 285k tc. For all the women out there reading this what is your cutoff? Please dm me if you would date a short man. Edit: yes I have asked both these women out several times and have known them for a few years, both said they see me only as a friend/brother
Women want to date the top 5% of men. Men want to date the top 50% of women.
Crap, I’m 5’6”
The struggle is real
Hey at least airplanes don't such as much! 🥁 I'm 5'6" and the tallest in my and my wife's family.
Im 5’2 and do not think that 5’8 is too short. 🤔 it’s just a personal preference thing
The really short women want tall guys(insecurities maybe?). On the other hand, average to tall girls don’t really have such stringent standards. Most of them want the guy to just be taller than them.
Why? They like to be punched through? ;)
I'm a girl and 5 3 and although taller may be more preferable..it would never stop me from being with someone if they were kind and smart and had a great personality and cute..also Salary has nothing to do with it. If a girl cares more about your salary and your height than happiness in a relationship...stay away from her. Those kind of girls are g.r.o.s.s.
Also beauty is in the eye of the beholder so dont think you need to have perfect good looks either. Be a good guy and be confident in yourself. Confidence is the most attractive thing a guy can have
Listen to this woman. I came here to write this but she expressed it well, from both perspectives.
Tell them I only date fit women. Let’s see what they say.
How old are you? I guess younger than 30. Girls will care less after 30. I have seen my 5'6" male friends get plenty of girls and also marry well. They are average, non VC/PE (read around your TC) 6 years post top 3 MBA (read: wharton ). Also if you don't have an Asian fetish, start developing one. And stop asking out girl's you know several times. Although as they age they'll lower their "standards" Also if you don't have a small penis, make sure your date can feel your non small penis when you hug them ( after a date or two, in not advocating rubbing you junk into random girl). I have had gfs tell me they rejected guys when they felt they had a small schlong.
I'm a 5'7'' guy and never ever had a problem
TC or GTFO
I don’t get these questions. Suppose it’s too short, then what? You’re going to stop trying? These questions are pointless because the conclusions are not actionable. Regardless of the answer you’ll keep trying and it’s the only right course of action
Yes I would stop trying in fact would make life a lot easier I hold out hope and keep up this fruitless effort
Today a lady held an elevator for me in the subway. I got in and noticed she was probably 4’ tall, appeared to be Indian. My point is that there are a lot of women who are much much shorter than you. I can’t imagine they all want 6’ tall Greek gods to date
With that TC? Yes. Too short Also why you find yourself in the “friend” zone
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