is a sensual / HE massage considered cheating while in relationship?
Conflicting thoughts on above topic. My sexual desires are higher than my spouses. Sex life is fine but i still feel a bit unsatisfied . Have a high stress job and travel quite frequently and have this urge to get a massage, release my tension and go back to my wife more rejuvenated. i havent done it yet as my mind still thinks its a form of cheating, but i see articles where sex therapy and this form of service has actually helped couples improve sex lives. I feel i want to do it once as i never experienced this ( even before marriage) and get it out. What do u guys think ?
that you have low T..... I mean TC
How’s that even related?
A few minutes of your life controls you. Get more TC and go fill your mind with other things
Talk to your spouse. Mine is fine with HE as long as it’s not with the same girl multiple times.
Must be arranged marriage
Wtf is HE massage?
Massage with a male. You need to be more sensitive to the pronoun
Hpv Exchange ... ie getting a disease
Less cheaty than if it you weren't paying for it. More cheaty than not doing it at all.
Cheating is entirely based on whether or not you're hiding it from your SO. Fucking a hooker isn't cheating if your wife is okay with it.
Which wife would be ok with that? Problem is women are emotional and us men more practical. We don’t want to hurt them. Like I said I’m definitely not fucking or even oral .
open relationships are a thing, and prostitutes / mistresses are definitely looked at differently in some countries like Japan. But yeah, it's an unreasonable hypothetical, just trying to make a point.
Visit Montreal. ‘Nuf said.
Yes. Rub n Tug is cheating. But don't pay more than $40 if u must
Also, even if your SO is okay with it, it's still a terrible idea because eventually the novelty of an HE will go away and you'll want more, maybe a CBJ, then afterwards start thinking about BBBJ, eventually CFS and hopefully never BBFS (you're already past the point of no return w/ your SO at this point, but now you're putting your health and her's at risk)... all of which your SO will obviously not be okay with.
That’s a lot of abbreviations (sexual I’m hoping), mate. Enlighten the ignorants, will you?
HE = Happy Ending (handjob) SO = Significant Other (spouse) CBJ = Covered BJ (fellatio w/ condom) BBBJ = Bareback BJ (fellatio w/o condom) CFS = Covered Full Service (sex w/ condom) BBFS = Bareback Full Service (sex w/o condom)
It is not cheating, go get it. Once you get it you will feel like shit and stop it because it really is not that great and you will realize how impersonal it is
Only one person can answer that: your SO. For some couples this would be fine, others it wouldn't. If you can't honestly talk to her about it, it's probably not okay.
This
Came here to say what you said perfectly. Cheating occurs when the other person doesn't know what's going on, or doesn't feel comfortable with what's going on. Swingers aren't cheaters, bc both people are on board.