just saw few post where husband wife didnt have sex more than few times in a year. it seems other than sex, they are perfectly fine with each other and don't want to divorce. now just like any other need you can't fulfill at home , you do it out. I know paying for sex is not legal but isn't it better than cheating ? why government does not legalize prostitution and make heavy penalty for human trafficking to avoid down side of it? Tc 350.
Yes because In the USA many prostitutes were enslaved in human trafficking
If this was true then why do most of them get prosecuted for their acts?
Because our system is unjust.
The government isn't going to pass laws to assuage your guilt. And even if it did and prostitution were legal, it'd still be cheating. We don't really have the answers for you.
Talk to your wife about it. That kind of arrangement can be healthy if you’re communicative and open about it. Even if she has a terrible gut reaction to it, it’s preferable to doing that kind of thing behind your back. Your needs are what they are and you should both be able to design a version of your marriage that meets both of your needs.
Ethical non-monogamy isn’t for everyone, and it won’t be an easy conversation, but it’s preferable to cheating by a long shot.
But... Don't jump first to "I want to fuck an escort". That probably won't go well. Start by talking about what you feel is missing in your relationship and bring up counseling. If no progress, be crisper about your needs and ask how she proposes you meet them.
"other than sex, they're perfectly fine" ==> That's like saying other than having cancer, patient is perfectly healthy.
Relationships are for more than just sex dawg
You think a companion is just for sex? 🙄
Two words: Open Relationship.
But I would imagine letting your significant other get paid relief in a business transaction without emotional entanglement is much easier for fundamentally monogamous people. Open relationships are much more complicated unless people really are non monogamous in orientation
Why not just go on tinder? It’s cheaper
You are saying its ok to cheat?
I think title has a question and rest of it was just a framing to get to question in title.
Join a tautology club.
Wait . Paying for sex is not legal?? I have never thought of paying for it nor do I ever plan to, but wtf. If it's not legal, how come people keep talking about red light districts, show it on TV and I've even seen blind posts on "slept with a hooker". Can someone explain?
Maybe not wrong, until you get an std
Right & wrong are super subjective. Just because you can do something doesn’t mean you should.