CompensationNov 2, 2019
Newitsreal

me and my husbad are in different states, Tennesse and New York/NJ. we are deciding to settle. which state to choose?

which would be the better state to sette? one of us will change the job. his profile is better so him finding a job is easy. he is working in nyc and stays in nj. i work as a QA in Tennessee. we want to settle and deciding the location.

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Oracle okhkg Nov 2, 2019

Join Amazon Nashville

VMware lftl00 Nov 2, 2019

Wherever you can save more in the end, have better social life and have more time to spend for each other.

Amazon bdie Nov 2, 2019

Why not look for job in each others cities. Whoever gets a job first move. We were in the same situation, moved to CA.

Citadel BrutеForce Nov 2, 2019

Not Tennessee.

Salesforce gg12345 Nov 2, 2019

Nj for more job opportunities in nyc. But property taxes are crazy if you plan on buying a place

Facebook dafu Nov 2, 2019

How about north dakota

Microsoft msnewbie Nov 2, 2019

Cold to death in winter and it's boring AF.

Capital One trilliman Nov 2, 2019

Depends on the age and stage of your life, I wouldn't settle down in a city, but southern states are arguably more "ideal" for raising a family.

Microsoft msnewbie Nov 2, 2019

Why? It's ideal for raising family with bunch of Trump supporters?

Amazon SDE III Nov 2, 2019

^^this

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lHpK84 Nov 2, 2019

Tennessee is beautiful. Better jobs in NY area though

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itsreal OP Nov 4, 2019

Almost spent our three years of marriage apart and now planning to settle in one place. Tennessee looks good for settling due to living life style but however finding a job is getting difficult.