im 34 male. i had couple of relations in my late 20s that didnt work. i couldnt find anyone after that. im an ugly indian. so, i know my chances are very close to zero. before u tell me to workout, sports, hobby, meet ups, socialize, network, dating apps - let me jus say, i tried them all. now, i know its okay to be alone for rest of my life. afterall we come alone and leave alone. but how do i really be ok living alone in long term. all my friends are married and have kids. i dont want to hang out with them, make myself and them feel weird. family is so far away. gave up on me. they hate me for being successful. in short, im lonely as hell. i am good financially. no debts. any one chose to live this way ? how did u come to terms with it ? are u really happy ? do u regret ? what would u change ?
Travel solo. You will meet people.
+1, Best experience of my life backpacking
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Sugar babies are fun, usually $300-400 per time
This guy wants love... sex is so empty without emotion . Also no decent woman will touch you once she finds out u paid for it
@Cisco how to find sugar babies?
OK I am older than you so I can give you some advices. Your situation is far better than many others so you should not give up. I have some friends who were getting married when they are 40+ year old.
I'm not older, early 30s but here's my observation: It's just the extremely skewed ratio of single Indians in the US. Things don't magically change like most of this thread tries to tell you. Alternatively... Just go work at your BLR office, walk into Orion Mall for lunch for an hour... you will find an entirely different world. Being reasonably fit, decently well dressed can go a long way in your home market (like it naturally should).
Why should op look for Indians? I guess that's where the problem is....he should be open to anybody who is a good person... being fit and well dressed is a plus in any market.
I don't think he's implying op should only go for Indians, it's that Indian guys have a hard time dating in the us while things are much better for them back home.
I feel like a large portion of unhappiness come from you comparing yourself with your friends. Have you thought about making more friends outside of your circle without the intention of dating? No one is truly ugly if they at least try to take care of themselves.
True that. Your friends should not define for you what happiness is, stop comparing! There's always going to be someone in whose life something will be working out better than the same thing in yours... Always
Figure out what you want? If it's companionship - you can always make good friends, if it's about sexual relationships that can be bought if there a pressing need for it, if it's about having a family then adopt. We in tech are trained to problem solve, this is just another ambiguous problem - i am sure you can solve it my friend.
You call yourself an ugly Indian, but you would be surprised how far an updated wardrobe can go. Get some nice cologne, designer jeans, and a button down shirt. You need to work with what you have.
Don't forget a nice hair cut that suits your face shape, take service from a high-end salon, worth a shot.
+1 on clothing. Also, don't stay away from your friends. I met my wife through friends. I wasn't actively looking - she was just on the right place at the right time and occasion. One more thing: I have no idea if this is your case or not, but being a foreigner myself, you'll be surprised how much difference it makes to be cleaner than Americans. By clean, I mean do not repeat clothes (always use once then wash them), brush your teeth 3x a day,...
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