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hello blinders - i am getting married soon and my fiance arranged a meeting so she could introduce me to her relatives. when I met her sister in law, she asked me about where i worked and what i did. pretty generic question. i spilled out the details. then she asks me about my TC indirectly - which I thought was rude but managed to dodge. showing some reciprocity i questioned her back about what she did and she has the audacity to tell me that she doesn't talk about her work publicly. i am like 29, and she is 40 years old and has a kid. can you believe this woman? damn. it pissed me off and thought i got played. it's been bothering me since then. how should I behave with her, if I encounter her again? I told my fiance about this and she said that not to bother too much and let go. but i feel this woman is a sneaky person. all smart high earning techies out there - please be a beacon of light. any advice? AWS TC 210
Don’t get her a Xmas present 👍
How about opposite - getting something pretty expensive, but refurb on deal
Haha, 😂 rub some salt
Since you know her now, stay away from her as much as possible.
This. Lesson learned, move on.
Tell that biatch to shut up next time she says anything.
Ignore her
If you’re ethnically South Asian (Indian, Malay, etc.) be prepared for escalation from her. I would say formal kindness and not acknowledging the question. I’d also like to suggest that in front of your fiancé make it clear to the In laws that some items just cause confusion in the family, and to leave topics like income out of family gatherings. Better for everyone.
Move on.
She wants to compare her life with that of her sister’s. Very sneaky, curious, and probably jealous personality type. If she sees your family is doing better than hers, she will attempt to cause problems. (By the way, if you have a sister, be prepared for the same thing.) From now on, don’t give her any information about anything personal. Make it clear to your fiancé that this will be your way of dealing with this sister going forward. Welcome to marriage!
You didn’t get played. You were free to answer her question however you wanted to and share as much info as you deemed appropriate to share with people outside of work. You determined it was ok to share and she determined it wasn’t. I think the problem here is that you felt pressured to answer her questions and over-shared even though you didn’t want to and that’s why you felt you were played when she didn’t answer you. This is probably her just trying to size you up seeing how you’re marrying into the family and all. So, I wouldn’t make any decisions based on that one single interaction. Keep being friendly and hangout with them over a longer period of time before assessing any potential family issues. I’d also not share too much info at once.
Mostly true, but no, she was sizing up for a reason and is very sneaky, beware of her
Agreed.
Nothing. Don't be bitter, be better.
Stone cold biatch 🙂
Maybe she's a stripper. Give her a break.
LOL