Hi all. Dealing with a mostly amicable divorce right now, where he wanted it but I did not, and I cannot see myself moving forward in the near future at all. My soon-to-be ex is having an “overly friendly” relationship with someone he used to manage and mentor while they both worked at Amazon. While...Read more
I’m visiting the town where this girl lives. Our first date was going out to eat, our second date was walking around an outdoor mall, and now I’m thinking of what our last date should be this week before I go back home. I currently live out of state so I won’t see her for 2 months until I move to h...Read more
I’ve heard that the recession got postponed, does anyone have the new date?
Just broke up and got back to dating app. I've a decent number of matches but the amount of response from any of them is underwhelming. What should I do to get them to first dates? This is in bay area
27M. Was getting ZERO matches lately, so for experimentation, I edit my filter to ‘open to all’. I already got like 10+ likes (all from male) so far within an hour smh 🤯 Can imagine now how even mediocre girls are getting hundreds of likes and being so picky over guys.
As a 31M in Seattle my experience has been shit. I'm 6ft4, 190 lbs, white, and IMO definitely not bad looking. My body type is average (not fat, but not muscled) but I've done "rateme" assessments before and I do have an above average face. I get somewhere between 0-5 matches on Tinder. Completely ...Read more
Hi, I told my manager that I am leaving and also revealed the name of the next company. Now, they think its a competitor so they are walking me out before my intended end date. But they said they will pay till the intended end date. 1. Will they be using my remaining PTO days to pay me for the rem...Read more
I give up. My experience as a cisgender, heterosexual woman dating in the Bay Area. Men ask me out after I meet them in person at some random Meetup event, but then can't meet me because they're too busy. Or because it's raining (what's 0.5 inches of rain and some wind gusts?). Or because it's t...Read more
I'm a gamer girl. I love to play video games after a long day at work with some bomb food and a hoppy IPA. I've really been into Spider-Man 2 of course because that's going to be game of the year. I've also been replaying Elden Ring and play Fall Guys for the laughs 😂. So I actually started to date...Read more
Folks, I need help. I like this influencer girl who I think does makeup. She has about 10k followers on instagram. She is really cute and I really like her. She lives overseas. I don’t know how to approach her and whether I approach her or not. Can you give me your opinion on how to do this? TC 6...Read more
It feels like a lot of guys here are ridiculed for innocent questions regarding how to get a girlfriend or dating/girls advice in general. I figured I would offer a safe space for fellas to ask any questions or get any dating advice they’d like. Comment below if interested. No judgment zone.
Just wanted to share that my mother negotiated girl-friend experience for me on matrimonial website. It means I am allowed to do dating stuff with the girl... And my mother will not say anything. May be s*x also for a few months. But I have to get married to her after that. Girl's family is ok with ...Read more
I recently moved to the Bay Area and I am interested in dating a girl that works in tech because I have never had the chance. What better place than Silicon Valley, right?! On online dating apps or social networks I don't seem to find or match with anyone in tech. At the office I've only met girls ...Read more
Come across my coworkers profile on a dating app. I really like them and I don’t want to come across as being creepy and make it awkward between us in the future, if they are not interested. Please advice if I should like their profile or not?
Bro wtf is this I was talking to 2 girls before getting laid off, and things were going well. After I get laid off, canceling dates and slowly they both drifted away without a proper conversation. On the dating apps, good convos but as soon as I mention I was laid off responses stop. Going on a d...Read more
Hey there! I'm a 26-year-old gal working at AWS, and I've got this thought buzzing around. I'm all about finding someone I can really vibe with, you know? So, here's the thing: I'm toying with the idea of narrowing down my dating options to just folks from the FAANG companies. Does that sound a bit ...Read more
Between the ages of 21-27 (I’ll be 28 in a month), I had a lot of women show interest in me but I never had the guts to ask them out. I saw a post by a 24 year old feeling bad about never having dated and all the instances where women showed interest in me replayed in my head. If I could go back, I...Read more
Let’s talk first date etiquette! In a world striving for gender equality, should splitting the bill be the norm? Some argue for fairness, while others believe traditional gestures hold significance. What’s your take on this topic? Share your thoughts in the poll below and let’s dive into this conver...Read more