Can I give my boss honest feedback?

Workday / Eng
EaOEiz

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EaOEiz
Mar 16, 2018 32 Comments

I want to tell her that she changes her mind so frequently that I am not confident in her judgment, and that when she makes these decisions she is often basing them off factually incorrect information. Also, I want to tell her that I don't feel comfortable showing her the 2-min proof that the information she has is incorrect (which also happens to give the correct information).

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  • Amazon / Mgmt
    Neeboop

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    Neeboop
    Depends... do you like your job? If not, go for it!
    Mar 16, 2018 2
  • Adobe
    beta

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    beta
    Is she Indian?
    Mar 16, 2018 1
  • Diversity my son. You can gain nothing by providing feedback to a woman and only lose.
    Mar 16, 2018 0
  • New
    dakinebrah

    New

    dakinebrah
    Correct her if you're 100% sure you're right. Show her whatever proof she requests. Eventually she will trust you enough not to require proof. Use this as leverage when you push for that future raise.
    Mar 16, 2018 5
    • New
      diplodorks

      New

      diplodorks
      I would have guessed new and insecure but sounds more like arrogant and incompetent and if thats the case she wont take constructive criticism well.
      Mar 16, 2018
    • Workday / Eng
      EaOEiz

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      EaOEiz
      OP
      No I haven't brought this up. Either could apply here. I haven't deciphered a pattern, though perhaps I could pay closer attention and keep logs to find patterns.
      Mar 17, 2018
  • It will depend how u phrase ur conversation. When she changes her tell her immediately "But u just said otherwise". After that, present facts on both version and tell her the potential outcomes on both. A lot will depend how u frame the communication. Ur negotiation skills are at test here. If she is going to help u grow in career then hang in there.
    Mar 16, 2018 2
    • Workday / Eng
      EaOEiz

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      EaOEiz
      OP
      I don't think she will help me grow much, but I'd rather continue my work then move around.

      Have you tried that communication before? I'm curious. What happened?
      Mar 16, 2018
    • U need to win trust of ur boss. Always do what ur boss wants u to do assuming he/she knows the consequences. At times when things get tricky I suggest discussing on another day so u both get time to think.
      Mar 16, 2018