Can you please share your Surrogacy experience ?

Dec 8, 2019 14 Comments

I saw other post about pregnancy loss and thought of posting this in blind.
We have gone through three pregnancy losses (and that too in IVF with PGS tested embryos). Doctor said everything is fine and did many different tests(came out normal).
We reached our emotional limit to try further and now thinking to get help of Surrogate mother.

If any members of this blind community has had the experience getting Surrogacy in USA/India, the agency you worked with,.. if anything you can share, would be super helpful in our next journey.

Tagging Google, Facebook since they have Surrogacy benefits and someone might have used it.

Thank you so much.

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  • Apple gPTe27
    Not google or Facebook but we built our family via surrogacy. I Understand the pain involved with IVF journey.

    Happy to share my experience if interested but we didn’t use any benefits
    Dec 8, 2019 4
    • Apple gPTe27
      @Dan Kutz: My wife adenomyosis which made it risky for her to carry our babies.
      Dec 8, 2019
    • Apple gPTe27
      OP I tried to answer your questions but have tired fingers. Let me know if that message helps or if you need more info
      Dec 8, 2019
  • LinkedIn çùrïõû$
    OP
    Three consecutive miscarriage with same pattern (heartbeat stopped at around 7 week) and hysteroscopy, laperoscopy, blood clot test, pre-genetic embryo testing, lost pregnancy tissue genetic test - all have been normal - Doctor terming this is unexplained infertility. Doctor said we might be super unlucky, could redo tests, try one more time with blood thinner. But, after all of these process since last 2 years, we reached our limit of mental strength.. And that's the reason we are thinking of Surrogacy.
    Dec 8, 2019 0
  • Expedia Group / Eng Anony🐭
    Hope it all works out for you. A lot of us on blind take some of these things for granted and worry about TC, LC and competing offers. How stupid we are!
    Dec 8, 2019 0
  • Amazon / Eng sw123
    Following
    Dec 8, 2019 4
    • LinkedIn çùrïõû$
      OP
      Ohk. Let me know if you need any info for ivf.
      Dec 8, 2019
    • Amazon fruitninja
      Hey there OP.. how did you manage work stress going through IVF ? Should I DM you or do you feel okay answering here.
      Dec 8, 2019
  • Verizon XbVH67
    Have you tried acupuncture? My niece had serious issues getting pregnant. Prior to attempting IVF, she went to an acupuncturist and with their help she was able to get pregnant. They just had a little girl. If you'be been through all the western testing, this might be a possibility to try. If certainly doesn't hurt. Good luck. I know exactly what you're going through. We went down the adoption path and now have a beautiful little boy.
    Dec 8, 2019 0
  • Microsoft presci
    India is tabling a new bill pertaining to surrogacy. Seems to say that only family members etc. are allowed to be surrogates.

    https://undark.org/2019/11/07/india-commercial-surrogacy-ban/
    Dec 8, 2019 0

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