I know this girl for like 7 years now. She's dumped me twice and blocked me everywhere. I feel low. Now, sitting at a park under sunshine. AMA TC : ~185k Edit: My guess has been validated. She's a covert narcissist. I just need to run away from her as far as possible. Lesson learnt. Thank you all :)
Why did you choose Sam’s Club/Walmart over Albertsons?
I don't know wtf is this Albertsons' let alone getting an offer from them.
Ah never mind. Just keep your chin up. Don’t get hung up on one girl: There’s plenty of fish in the sea... and in Albertsons.
How's the culture and growth at Sam's club?
Hey, I'm relatively new to Sam's club/Walmart. So far it's been good.
Are you in Arkansas, how's the city? And what's your yoe?
I feel you. Haven’t been blocked yet, but I complain a lot about how she’s not very responsive :( she used to be very into talking to me. I have been depressed for many many many moons now.
I can understand your pain. I suggest you to avoid contacting her for a while. It's hard.but that's the only way to get her wondering what's going on with you.
I did. I ghosted her a lot and she just ended up getting used to it and would maybe reach out after a week. She and I also agreed to not contact each other for a while before and she ended up saying hi to me after a few days. We used to be best friend like she would tell me her feelings and now she doesn’t. She claims she’s always busy at work but she’s also always on the phone so why can’t she just reply. Even when she does she gives me one or two word response. I know my problem and I knoe I can’t control people’s life but I feel sad. I wish time was still 2017 when I got to talk to her every day and night. 😢😣
Hey at least you have sunshine
Yep, my eternal love ❤️
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Should we send you some pictures of puppies? 🐶🐶. Seriously though
Was she not happy with your non FAANG tc? But seriously though. You have a lot of years remaining. Stop being sad about her and move on. Sometimes it feels like the end of the world. But what makes us special is the ability to pick pieces up and move on.
Well, we never discussed about our pay when we were in touch. I felt the emotional detachment which was missing in the beginning of this year. I felt anxiety and shit. In fact I feel better as I don't have to be anxious to talk to her. Thanks for your comment. I understand this is not the end of the world. Just grieving about my misjudgement for the second time. You've a great weekend.
I’m sorry man. Actually I’m not sorry. You are and will be fine. Thank you and you have a great weekend too.
That's rough, OP. It's never fun being rejected by people who you desperately want to accept you. Going outside is a great first step. Some people change their entire mannerisms after getting dumped. Don't do that. Don't hate yourself. See what areas of your character need improvement and work on bettering yourself, for your own sake, not for anyone else. Living a single life can be devastatingly lonely, but it has many positives as well. Take this time to pick up new hobbies, or improve on existing ones. I guarantee eventually you will find someone else who is a great fit for you 🙂
That’s me. All day in bed. I do do some work on the weekend but not much. I just woke up from a 5 hours nap. Now I am bored.
I mean they are being generous and nice to us when they give advice but I completely understand where you are coming from @Amazon. I am in the same boat.
You are still breathing, +1. You have are healthy, +1. You have a job, +1. Who ever dumbs you, shit on them and move on, nobody’s worth your depression, if you don’t value yourself, nobody will ever value you
Yes, that makes sense. I'm going out regularly. Attending events, going on a random strolls and eating the food I love. All alone though! Need to spend time with friends (who never make plans).
Which city are you in? If you are in the bay area, i’m down to meet you, I don’t have many friends here either, but, hey, it’w never late to make friends :)
Everyone on this thread should seek help 🧐
It sucks, hang out with friends even if you don't want to.