To folks in relationship, what do you do when this happens? When you don’t find your partner sexually attractive? Sex appeal isn’t just looks, I think my partner is gorgeous but they’re too nice, timid, and not adventurous and that messes with sex appeal. May be I have issues…
Edit: straight male, but using gender-agnostic language because I’d welcome thoughts from types of couples
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Physical attraction: check.
Spiritual attraction: lukewarm.
If you are in a relationship with them, what drew you to them initially? Pure physical attraction?
You can talk about willingness to try new things but there is not likely going to be any big changes in their overall personality (timid, conservative).
You also have to have perspective that you may be with someone adventurous and outgoing that is also rude etc. that is also an unattractive quality.
As long as you are open/honest and address things concerning you, you can come to a decision a lot faster. That said, physically attractive, kind and matching a lot of your core values is a rare commodity.