Girlfriend Starting to Feel Like Dead Weight
So we've been dating for over three years and have had our ups and downs but recently I've started feeling like the juice just isn't worth the squeeze.
I've started focusing more on my future and career while she's just kinda stagnated.
Because I'm busting my ass pulling long hours in and out of work and not instantly answering her texts or talking to her during the day she suspects me of cheating even though I've given her concrete proof that it's impossible.
If anything I suspect that might be what she's doing since she has a lot more free time than me.
If my TC wasn't so trash I'd suspect she only stays around because she wants a meal ticket since she's brought up marriage multiple times and seems to be seriously considering it.
We're both in our mid 20s but she still lives with her parents and acts like an overgrown teenager who only cares about getting fucked up and hanging out with her friends who are also going nowhere.
I used to be all for doing that when we first met but have come to realize it's fundamentally incompatible with what I want out of life and has been interesting me less and less as I've gotten older.
In return she says I've become "boring".
I still like her as a person but it's kinda hard to relate to somebody who no longer shares the same goals and priorities.
She's made some progress but I can't help feeling like I could do better or even that I'd be better off just not in a super deep relationship right now.
Should I Leetcode my other options and leave?