Over time I have become more extroverted and more bold. I don’t hesitate to speak up. This scares away potential ppl who want to date me. How do I become more feminine? Men like girly females right ?
Are you kidding me? I’d kill for a girl like that. Be yourself. Don’t change
Haha! My ex dumped me to get an extremely shy girly girl and is now gonna marry her. Her Tc Maybe 100k
your ex wouldn't have married you even if you forced yourself to be a girly girl bc that's not authentic. I think you have a good filtering system for yourself.. only men who can handle you will show up next
Oh god. 🙄
Your amazing! Don’t change yourself for another person. The right one will come along 😊
You just need to find a better guy.
Most people will tell you to just be yourself/other useless, feel-good “advice”. The truth is, most (but definitely not all) men do like more feminine women. I love that my wife prepares a lunch for me everyday, for example. It makes me feel super loved and cared for. However, you may also not want the kind of man that wants that kind of woman. It’s all about compatibility. If you’re not looking for a guy who fits more traditional gender roles, then it also makes no sense for you to try to fit traditional gender roles. But, if you *are* interested in that kind of guy, or just want to broaden your appeal to most guys, it definitely would help to be more girly. In which case, check out redpillwomen and redpillwives on reddit.
“If you’re not looking for a guy who fits more traditional gender roles, then it also makes no sense for you to try to fit traditional gender roles.” Common sense goldmine right here 👏
The uncommon part these pc-minded folks don't get is that we are evolutionarily conditioned to find the various mannerisms and behaviors and physical attributes of traditional male/female roles. It's a dishonest lie to oppose it in the name of political correctness. Yes there's the 1% that don't fit, but an exception doesn't a rule, make.
There are lots of traits that are sometimes thought of as feminine. Being confident and assertive rather than submissive is a huge positive in my book. Being caring is also a big positive. But I also think both of those things are kind of hard (and probably exhausting and demoralizing) to fake for any prolonged period.
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Let’s get to the bottom of this. Your real question isn’t how to be more feminine, but how to date successfully. And what does that mean? That means finding guys who you have a natural connection with, where there is chemistry and trust. So shouldn’t you instead be 1) figuring out the type of guys you like who like you back (synergy) 2) asking where that kind of guys hang out, and then 3) go meet them?
☝️ Best advice so far. My take would be a bit different, there are guys who like girls like OP to date and be in a relationship but few of them wouldn’t marry and would want a different type to marry. OP needs to be able to differentiate between the two and find the first type who would date and marry the same girl.
TC?
$200K