I have been on blind from last 1 week and an answer of mine recently has garnered a lot of negative/hate comments. It’s very unusual for me to be scorned, as everyone around me is generally very appreciative of me, but, a lot of people go through this every day, be it their jobs or personal lives. My question to you is, how do you deal with it? or are you unshakeable? As for me, I realized I was, for the first time, facing(through blind) the voice of many who would have the same negetive thoughts for me but never approached me in real. I feel sorry for every human who tries to make themself feel better by hating on another. This is an issue that needs fixed rather than acted upon. Have you ever hated anyone? Why did you? Can you fix yourself? MAJOR EDIT: TC = $1 MAJOR EDIT #2: Everyone’s remark about the special snowflake has really made me realise and appreciate the people i have in my life. I am very grateful to everyone.
You’ve been on blind for one week and you still didn’t put your TC. You deal with such things with high TC. So before people take over, TC or GTFO.
Lol I am sorry I just have.
With that TC you have no other option but do deal with it.
Grow a pair, don’t hate people focus on yourself and ignore the toxic people, also troll on blind that helps to reduce some stress
Ignore the toxic people, how true. Thank you for the positive answer : )
You are the definition of a special snowflake.
Aw. I am so grateful, I am a special snowflake!
Be a bit more careful, if you think you’re unshakable you’ll lose. Be grateful you’re strong but no one is unshakable, and arrogance may be what gets you since it stops you from being careful.
Absolutely!
Wow. You sound quite pathetic. I bet you cried when you watched Bambi.
I haven’t watched Bambi. I am so not into movies and series. What is the movie about?
What in the actual F?
Ah yes, the delicate snowflake who was shielded all their life and suddenly has to face opposing viewpoints. Let me give it straight to you - toughen up, realize that everyone can and will be on the wrong side of an issue including you. You do not grow with yes-men around you, which is what you seem to have IRL. This is a fucking anonymized app, no one gives a shit whether you felt "scorned" or not.
Your message has literally made me appreciate every human i have in my life, including my clients. Everyone has always shielded me. Yes! And to be honest, I didn’t give a shit for being scorned either. My question mainly is, why are people hating on each other. What’s lacking in their surroundings, their confidence and personalities that they want to pull someone down in order to feel elevated.
Don't know what thread that was. Maybe you were talking out of your ass and everyone was like wtf is this garbage ? Or maybe you touched upon a sensitive issue with just a shallow understanding ?
Well it was a thread where people were comforting this guy who was uncomfortable dating a girl 4 year younger than him, and then I replied telling them that I have dated men twice my age and it’s a great feeling. There ya go, every girl on the thread started hating on me. As for OWO, my society, thankfully, doesn’t believe in voicing opinions on hatred. At least, no one has ever done that to me. This could also be because I don’t interact a lot in real life, but I am very grateful for them regardless
Was this the one where the “girl” was a teenager? It was justifiable. If anything we went too lightly.
The teenage girl was ME! Yes lol. Aunties went really hard on me but it was fun. I kind of only felt bad for a few girls who were abusive and sick minded in their approach.
A wise philosopher said about 2500 years ago "True knowledge exists in knowing that you know nothing.". If you got some negative comments, may be ask why?
Because I told some girls that I have dated men twice my age. What followed was hard opinions, girls asking where do I get those guys and that I am a ughh whatever!
Atleast you learnt there's a perception about dating older men. If you're comfortable doing it, ignore the comments! But if you are bothered by the comments, may be you are also questioning? There is only one way to deal with criticism imho. Examine them and either shrug off or address any underlying issue
This is blind, everyone is a troll here. People come here to let the steam off.
10000% true.
Are you a Trump supporter?
I think I am one of those people who never go voting and have very strong yet very private support for ideas and not people.
Yea he’s a Trumpster. The snowflake probably lived in a bubble his whole life.