HousingJan 12, 2020
IndeedfGVu77

How much should we budget for buying a home

My SO and I (no kids) are looking at purchasing our first home together in the East Bay. We're looking in the 400-500 range but not having good luck getting what we want. Our real estate agent told us to come back with the absolute max we would spend on a house. Realistically we could increase the budget but we are two very conservative spenders. Our finances are: My TC 110K SO TC 150K Monthly expenses (grocery, credit card, rent, car etc) 6K Savings for down payment 100K What's the absolute most we should increase our budget to? Please give reasoning. Edit*** monthly budget break down $2500 rent $200-300 grocery $200 bills $300 car + gas + tolls $1000 travel - we travel almost monthly for fun. Probably will reduce this soon. $500 - charity. Our monthly expenses range from 4k-6k a month.

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SAP Ecc3Ns2 Jan 12, 2020

Depends on how much you have saved as a down payment. Also, I don’t factor in TC for my house payments. You don’t want to guarantee bonuses or stocks. Go off your salary, especially if you are conservative spenders, as you mentioned. Your TC is similar to my and my husbands salary. We spent a little over $750k on our house but we put almost $300k down.

Indeed fGVu77 OP Jan 12, 2020

Good point updated it with our down payment info

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HXwF46 Jan 12, 2020

That's a lot of monthly expenses

Roku pikman Jan 12, 2020

Is it? Mine is like 14k/month

Roku pikman Jan 12, 2020

19k if you include mortgage

Facebook LkTh38 Jan 12, 2020

You should spend some time on Zillow getting an idea of what is realistic for home prices and styles in that area. Then see if you can afford that range. Your current budget seems to fit your income / savings level. If you want a one bedroom condo, you have a shot in that budget, but anything else will be tough at the moment.

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tutorneeed Jan 12, 2020

Your total TC let say is about 250k, assuming thats guranteed money. Then usually people buy about 2.5 times their salary so you should be able to afford like 650 to 700k easily. Assuming you guys have stable job. If you are SWE you should not have any problem getting jobs and raise.

Amazon SnLeandro Jan 13, 2020

I'm same situation as them as afforded in that exact range you're right. That range fits their target locations too

Amazon SnLeandro Jan 13, 2020

And afforded*

Wells Fargo angel32 Jan 12, 2020

Which places in East Bay. You might be able to find in Mountain House in range of 500 to 600k

Indeed fGVu77 OP Jan 12, 2020

We are looking at Oakland, Hayward and San Leandro

Salesforce brHq56 Jan 12, 2020

I would avoid mountain house if you work in the Bay Area. There is at least Livermore to try before resorting to that.

Gracenote 0ddba11 Jan 12, 2020

I too was in similar situation couple ago. Ended up buying 3 story SFH in Dublin for 900k. We did 10% down, 10% HELOC rest Jumbo mortgage U can get older SFH in Dublin/Plstn in 850k to 950k. Three story townhouses go for about 900k now.

Indeed fGVu77 OP Jan 13, 2020

We're looking specifically in Oakland, Hayward, San Leandro.

Microsoft usernameOo Jan 12, 2020

two people 6k expense and no mortgage? wow.

Intel Esq. Jan 12, 2020

Agree. OP needs to explain so we can truly help. Assume rent for SFBA is $2-3k so what is the other $3-4k? $1000 for cars? $500 a week for food? These numbers for two young DINKs doesnt scream "conservative spenders" as claimed. Think OP needs to use YNAB to break down budget and tighten up. 500k housing budget in bay area is nothing. Can you even get a 1br condo for that? If so why even waste the money on that, keep renting and save for a house.

Indeed fGVu77 OP Jan 12, 2020

Here I was thinking we were conservative. Guess not.

Indeed fGVu77 OP Jan 12, 2020

Updated my post with our monthly spend.

Cisco f=ma_ Jan 12, 2020

Budget too low. You won't get anything below 500k in bay area

BlackRock LTB Jan 16, 2020

The OP said East Bay. At $500k I'm assuming they are looking at Bay Point/Pittsburg/Antioch.

Cisco f=ma_ Jan 16, 2020

For me East Bay ends at Dublin... Those 3 places you said is the south of another bay 😋😏

Salesforce brHq56 Jan 12, 2020

Your monthly spending seems just fine for two people. 6k is not exorbitant. Obviously you’re no Dave Ramsay or anything but not like you’re spending every nickel either. But 500k is too low for the areas you’re looking. There are still over bids in those places so you will need to account for that and stretch your budget to at least 800k. You can punch in the numbers to a loan calculator to decide if you can afford it.

Amazon SnLeandro Jan 13, 2020

650-700K is enough for those areas