Serious question. Not a troll post. Lets get a few things out of the way . TC: 160k Yes, I am Indian. I go out at least 2-3 days in a week. I am extroverted, have no problems carrying on a conversation. I have a personality, I take dance lessons, pursue new activities, keep myself busy. But the ratio is so bad here in Bay Area. It's like there are 10 guys for every 1 girl here. Now, I am no Brad Pitt by any means but I am not very bad looking either. I would consider myself above average by Indian standards (judging by the number of Tinder matches I used to get in India), but how do you compete with a 10:1 ratio? Just wondering do you guys struggle in Bay Area too? Or is it just me? And what's up with Tinder here? Why do girls here left swipe all the Indian dudes? Can't change my skin color yo!
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Find a segment in which you’re competitive. Hippy SJWs is one, but they’re going to write you off since you asked “get a gf” instead of “find a gf”. More serious suggestion - get out of Bay. Males of all ethnicities date below their league here.
How to stop getting matches only from hippie SJWs? Seems like this is really my forte but most, if not all, of them are really messy and aimless to the extent that it's a turn off. Do you have any experience in pivoting out of this expertise?
The ratio in the Bay Area is roughly 50:50 male to female. It’s probably just where you’re going that is predominately male.
Try Bumble
Join a pickup artist bootcamp
Do not do that
Yes! Honesty I feel like every man should go though at least a beginners pick up artist boot camp, honestly so many men are hopeless around social dynamics when it comes to women - it’s honestly pathetic.
Is Grindr still a thing?
Hey straight guys stay on your own app, this is ours.
You prolly need to "add" potential GF on FB
Breadth first search.
Legit
So get to know a girl and then all her friends and then all the friends of the first girl and so on? The problem is that currently I am sitting on a null tree