Born and raised east coast usa. I'm relatively charming and able to hold conversations, but overall people kinda just piss me off. They make up rumors, miscommunicate, talk behind your back, etc. or maybe they're just completely stupid. everyone puts up a front to be socially accepted. it's pointless. I generally believe that most people's misery in the first world is just worthless bullsh*t people make up in their own heads because drama > the null void of an existence that doesn't require survival. You have no real purpose at that point. you can either go into public service, build something, or live to serve your own desires and ego. Most go with option 3. It all seems 99% negative. Humans are generally toxic in my experience. Family, friendships, relationships; all shit. No one respects me no matter how well I carry myself or how often I stand my ground. I don't trust anyone. I navigate it very well but honestly I hate most people. I don't really want to speak up about it. no point in wasting my time and energy because everyone just wants to be right even when they're in the wrong. There is no winning unless you've already done something in life. all they'll see is some 'loser' who isn't a sh*thead like them. honestly even being a celebrity or politician won't help you spread positivity. Nothing impresses anyone because they're all so self absorbed they'd only care if it was their own accomplishment Deep down I care for my brothers and sisters in war torn, hostile, occupied, impoverished, and famine strucken areas, but most everyone else is just a bunch of useless brats imo. This country is so divided that the toxicity has seeped into every pore of the social fabric here. it's getting worse idk how y'all deal with it. being bitter or reclusive is bad too because you would just become more of an outcast which will lead to additional toxic vibes directed at you and you'd become even more miserable. I literally want to floor it and drive off a bridge most days. My only solution is just be a winner and live for some meaningful purpose you actually care about.
For one, you don't need to be ashamed of your country or culture. It is not you! For another, America is far more tolerant than most other countries. I'm from India, and the culture is much more superficial and primitive. People are obsessed about ethnicity and lineage in marriage now than anything else --America 40 years ago was more tolerant. Yet so many Indians on blind are so defensive of their culture, the slightest criticism gets personal attacks as you'll soon see in response to this comment. So why do you have to be so upset about this?
move to Mexico, enjoy life
No we don't want him there
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Youāre not alone. A large portion or the Democratic base hates America and Americans and blame them for almost all of the worldās problems. Travel more, live for a few years in other parts of the world and it will change your perspective. Saying this as someone who moved to the US in my late 20s after having lived in a few places in Europe.
Yeah yeah yeah, you're the one who's woke and the sheeple Americans are so dumb and full of themselves right? Put down the black eyeliner, stop listening to My Chemical Romance, and grow up. Eventually you'll realize how stupid you sound making sweeping generalizations about everyone else and wondering why no one likes you.
Everyone I spend time with feels like this is common (though not quite this extreme, tbh) and we take serious steps to make sure those people arenāt in our circles. It is a pain, it takes time, but itās worth it. And remember that there are thousands of groups of people like the one Iāve described who also feel similarly to you right here in the US. If youāre in the Bay Area/SoCal, feel free to DM me. Our common interests are what matter, and being decent/respectful, and thatās about it.
+1 to living abroad for a bit.
I am Indian and I hate all Indians
Try some other country or culture. Maybe Europe or Canada or Caribbean. You may find communities which are kind and nicer. I personally feel being an āassholeā or a ājerkā instead of being āniceā and ākindā is rewarded in US which is leading to a collapse of its social fabric. This goes irrespective of ethnicity. People are more depressed than ever since they do not have genuine social connections or interactions. āTherapyā being a solution all the time itself tells how isolated people have become behind the perfect insta and fb lives.
You may want to consider getting some therapy. You have a lot of good points but the weight of that knowledge is poisoning you and some therapy may help to detox. I know there's a lot of stigma about seeing a therapist but they're honestly there to try to help people out.
yeah I want to die bro but it's good for you because fb/Instagram thrive in this environment lol
Sorry, dude. There's no way to fix the masses but if you feel good about your own living then that's a start. There are other people out there who are disgusted with how many snowflakes there are in first world countries complaining about silly stuff while some people are wondering if their house will get hit by a bomb or they don't even have a shelter to call home. Find charities you trust and throw most of your money their way. A little bit of cash from tech salary can make a big difference in the lives of some less fortunates.