My wife and I are competing our annual reviews of each other. One of the challenges I’m facing this year is we didn’t agree on OKRs and I have a lot of qualitative feedback but don’t like how the KPIs look. I’m worried her annual review of me will be similar. We both aligned that we’d max out 401ks, move for promotions and end a car lease. But her career moved faster and we don’t have joint accounts so I failed to enter a savings goal. I’m going to suggest she didn’t save enough to see if I can get insight. Also the household itself did well this year we deceased our order in rate by 15% while moving to a good mix of organics and non frozen items +20%. Anyway for other couples that do this please share advice. Thanks.
I don’t do this but I hope to when I get married. Relationship advice: Just be real. Tell her how you’re feeling with what KPI’s you do have, own your shit and let her own hers. Move forward together and maybe start reviewing quarterly instead of annually so you can make improvements more dynamically.
You are not married yet but sure feel free to advice. It's free!
I love this idea.
My wife left me when my Nest broke but I feel like I can prevent damage to you already shaken relationship. It’s important to be satisfied with less sometimes. If I had a Schlage she’d still be here right now.
Are you the locked out poor guy?
WTF did I just read? Dude, Your marriage is not going to last long. Marriage is about mutual love, trust, respect and sacrifices. It's not about performance reviews, 60 day periods.
Forces transparency.
Don’t assume you know what works for every relationship. In a time when people leave marriages earlier than they leave jobs who’s to say this approach won’t work.
Yo is this for real?? 😳 I’m all for written goals In a marriage and stuff, but annual perf reviews HOLY CRAP 🤕
Like anything you’d be surprised how misaligned you are without them. What works at work can work at home.
I don’t want to do the needful 😞
TC or GFTO
This is what blind is for. Thank you.
How is the sex?? How often and how does she do you?
Move to a daily scrum and track progress of user stories in 2 week sprints.
Don’t make a joke of it. Ask yourself how your relationship could be better. We all know scrums are doing not showing.
Well apparently you’re not “doing” otherwise your report card would be better then your spouse....
Sounds like you need to bust out the PIP
In our prenup while it’s not called a PIP we did say we do a 60 day process if there was infidelity.
diHu82 can you describe your 60 day process for infidelity? I'm super intrigued