Indians who plan to move their parents to USA/Canada, how do you expect them to manage?
I work in Seattle area, and looking forward to have the option of parents moving to USA if and when I get my GC (~10 years) or if I can move to Canada get my PR, and invite them on PR/supervisa. Seen a few posts where other folks are exploring similar options https://www.teamblind.com/post/Move-to-US-or-stay-in-Canada-nViyJJvM
I have a few concerns based on my experiences when they visit for a few months:
1. Living arrangements: Difficult to manage spouse, kids and parents in a 2BR apartment, need to buy a townhouse or a detached house. Lets say TC and money solves this problem.
2. Keeping spouse happy/ inviting their parents as well, need bigger TC and house to solve this problem.
3. Parents have a social circle, relatives back in India and they will be bored here. I am not sure how they will be able to mingle in Bellevue area. Anyone have any experiences around this?
4. Parents dependent on us for every singe thing. Back in India they know how to get groceries/ travel to other cities etc. Here we have to accompany them for a walk to the park nearby, they will not be able to communicate in English to other people on the road if they lose their way.
5. Similar to 3, how to go on trips with/without them? They don't like places like Vegas/ appreciate beaches/ cabin in snow/hiking trips. But we cannot leave them at home while we go a on a long weekend trip as they won't be able to figure out grocery, maintenance and might get super bored.
6. Lack of food/restaurant options, will need to hire a cook. Need to hire a cleaner, costs for insurance etc. Again this can be solved by money.
7. As someone suggested, healthcare costs in USA/ costs + wait times in Canada. Expensive insurance + out of pocket costs.
Immigrant from India, please share your relevant experiences!
Move to US or stay in Canada?
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I cited the same reasons, as you did in another comment, for moving to USA last year for an MBA; was shut-down by Indians already at HSW that we over-emphasize on these reasons and that most Indians at elite universities are returning to India.
Consider returning to India - most of your issues you have listed here will get solved.
I'm not 'delusional' of the harms, I'm just stating that these reasons are not as big as we make them out to be. I justified them when I was desperate to move, but when time came to actually move, I realised maybe other things mean more to me. That was my reality and it is different from what you want from life. You do you.
People don't die of pollution at the age of 20, the effects are slow and devastating.
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Your troubles define USA life.
Canada is 180 degre opposite if u live in big cities.
In fact other than driving which is alternative to Uber - parents r quite independent.