Shout-out to who preaches "go out, meet new people"
Dec 12, 2020
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How exactly do you go out and meet new people?
Do you just start conversation with random people in a coffee shop, street? Do people respond and why do they? More importantly how do you find the energy and confidence to do so?
I can't fathom the possibility of gathering that level of power to do so. Tried plenty of time, but apparently haven't worked out at all. I guess I will go back to leetcode, that seems to be more fun.
P.S. : I am genuinely curious.
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It’s Covid time, so calm your ponies.
If you’re a 10 they themselves will come and talk to you, even the ones that are taken, some might hook you up with their BFFs, girls like hooking people up. 🤷🏻♂️
You need to feel confident of yourself first, you need not be a 10. Become the best version of yourself whatever you think that is and then see approaching women as applying for jobs. Just don’t creep them out, you just need one offer! 😎
If you’re a nice guy, I’d give you more tips IRL, but I have no meeting people from blind policy. Good luck!
2. Expect that they will not respond. If they do, great!
If not, u were not expecting it anyway.
3. Do not look awkward even if u r feeling awkward.
4. Try doing this in parties with a friend's friend(who is a stranger to you).
Top notch advice 😂
If it doesn’t work, try again with someone different next time. Go with your instincts.
Provided you take care of yourself, smell good, look healthy and tidy, you’re good.
There’s no point in being scared of approaching people chilling in public places, you have nothing to lose.
Develop an IDGAF attitude and you’d go places.
Keep doing it and you’d build confidence. AFAIK, women agree confidence is sexy.