Which city is the best? in terms of social life for single ladies early 20s, TC, weather, things to do etc Seattle has been depressing for me so far. I havent decided if I should move to SF or NYC or LA. Need some advice
What did you find depressing about Seattle, besides the weather?
Cities won’t dictate social life but you !! You can be depressed and bored anywhere if you don’t have right company 😅 having lived in 6 different cities in US I can attest that the most boring city have been the most fun for me — due to people around me and the friends i made ! No comparison
I know! But sometimes I do feel that weather has an effect on my mood. Also It seems ghostin is more common here
Usually rainy gloomy weather may seem strange but you know with correct scenario it can be pretty fun haha 😆! Don’t know why ghostin is common here never experienced haha
A single male will never vote for Seattle
There are like four 20something women in SF. One is married and two of them are lesbian. If you want to date, NYC has the best female:male ratio. LA is sunny and everybody is gorgeous but good luck finding a girl you can actually talk to, unless you are really into the entertainment industry. Gross generalizations of course but 🤷🏼♀️
If you didn’t notice. I am a girl🤦🏻♀️I asked for advice for single ladies in early 20s
OOPS MY BAD Reverse all the dating tips. Except men here in SF are... hit or miss. If you dont mind the nerdy types and can handle sifting through a bunch of dudes who think you know nothing about your own job, SF is great. On second thought dont move here, so many of my girlfriends are having a crappy time. LA is fun but can get seedy. I generally feel safe in NYC but haven’t lived there while single.
Problem is you want it all. You want to get the best net TC? Seattle. You want good weather? California. You want things to do? New York. Prioritize and make the tradeoffs.
Amazon pays same in nyc as Bay Area and col is lower... And about best net ? It ain’t a gap as one would think from what my friends are paying (not even mentioning that you can live in queens , Brooklyn or Hoboken in a really nice area and be in midtown in 15-20 min with the train...
Lol I know... you are absolutely right haha! Do you choose Seattle in this case then
In LA you need to be 20/10 rated 😂😛
Breakdown: Nyc - great social life and things to do Within 30 minutes you can choose to live in Manhattan , the burbs or something in between Prime level pay and a lot of current and upcoming tech opportunities Col is high but not Bay Area high True four season area for good and bad La is great for social life but it’s a different kind of scene and pay is usually considerably lower from friends I have there. Weather is the best if you like all around summer Sf / Bay Area - sf is o k if you like your mix of hipsters and homeless people Most people I know there are tech nerds and they say social life is meh Bay Area burbs is not for single people In general highest col that extra tc doesn’t always cover (at least when you want to buy) Seattle is dull , weather is dull and I wouldn’t consider if you don’t have a specific job / family
I didnt vote since Ive lived in nyc my whole life, but as a single male, dating in nyc is relatively easy at least for college aged people, theres tinder and bumble too. In nyc there are events going on around the city everday, its just a matter of what you can afford and how much time you can spend. Weather is average? Summers are hot, winters are cold.
How’s dating as a female then. Guess you don’t know :/
I wouldnt know for sure, most of my gfs have atleast one bad experience but I think thats just dating in general, comes with the territory.
I love seattle for being have a family. Go to nyc with decent job. Ton of single female ready to meet someone if you are a good fish in the market.
🥱I am a straight female. I’m so tired of people assuming me as male
Okay. Then you shouldn’t go to nyc. Young female and male ratio there is 9:1. Remember what I said. It is 9:1.
Seattle? 😆 Also, sup?
Not much :(
Bet them seattle folks are trying to slide in your dms in troves as we speak 😂