Serious question

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TILtil

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TILtil
Jan 3, 2019 39 Comments

Not trying to judge, really want to know the truth.
Girls who sign up for Tinder and CMB, what's your expectation? Very rarely I get matched and even when I do vast majority don't reply or show little interest.
Is it that you are not serious when you signed up or too busy or too many matches so hard to keep up.
Lot of girls say they want guys to take the initiative but they don't reciprocate.
Please share your experience.

PS: Please don't troll. I want to seriously know their side of the story. I'm sure they have their reason.

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  • Serious answer, if you were a 10 or even 9.5, you wouldn't be here asking this question. Girls are serious but just not with you.
    Jan 3, 2019 6
  • Google / Eng
    jot

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    Amazon
    jot
    Online dating is terrible for most men. After starting to date my (now) wife, I shared my OKC profile with her - “ah, nope! Never”. I had similar experiences with a couple of my girlfriends before. For me, the answer was to get out of the house and do things (things that have nothing to do with dating). I met one partner at an atheist meetup! I expected NO women, and yet there she was. My wife, I met at a BDSM club (I was with that meetup girl) and that is how I snagged my wife. Get out there and be who you would want to date!
    Jan 3, 2019 5
  • Cisco
    gglgirl

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    Cisco
    gglgirl
    This is just my side of story.

    1. There are too many options that you can't keep up with. I'm a girl next door with 100+ likes on Hinge/bumble. (It doesn't make me any special) but I really can't keep up with the options.

    2. If I do find someone attractive, I start evaluating them on TC. I'm at $350k TC so I only wanna engage with someone similar.

    Sorry if it makes me sound judgemental but that's my preference.
    Jan 3, 2019 7
    • Microsoft / Eng
      Dr. 13

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      Dr. 13
      I don't agree. I think she represents *some* women, probably a minority of them (I hope). It is also becoming more socially acceptable for women to be bread winners these days now that they are becoming more and more part of the workforce (thanks WW2!).

      I also suspect that if I women got to know someone they were truly compatible with, they could look past the money issue.

      A caveat to that is if the money issue means they will be in poverty and can't raise kids. That's different.
      Jan 4, 2019
    • This is a lesson in how to be single for life.

      You're already filtering out 99% based on income. Then I'm sure you have an age filter, cut out another 2/3rds so you're down around 0.3%. then I'm sure you have some physical appearance filter, let's put it at 0.15%. and then how many of that 0.15% are single? I think going down to 0.05% even is being generous here. Good luck finding that guy, actually liking him, and him actually liking you in your lifetime.

      Not to mention you say you're a "girl next door". This 0.05% guy is probably fine with and can easily get a smoking hottie that makes $50k/year or less. Where does that leave you?
      Jan 5, 2019
  • You ugly son.
    Jan 3, 2019 0
  • Google / Eng
    Bluths

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    Bluths
    Unfortunately, since you’re not in the top 20% of men on dating sites, you’re pretty much invisible to women. Maybe try your luck in real life?
    Jan 3, 2019 1