Not trying to judge, really want to know the truth.
Girls who sign up for Tinder and CMB, what's your expectation? Very rarely I get matched and even when I do vast majority don't reply or show little interest.
Is it that you are not serious when you signed up or too busy or too many matches so hard to keep up.
Lot of girls say they want guys to take the initiative but they don't reciprocate.
Please share your experience.
PS: Please don't troll. I want to seriously know their side of the story. I'm sure they have their reason.
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1. There are too many options that you can't keep up with. I'm a girl next door with 100+ likes on Hinge/bumble. (It doesn't make me any special) but I really can't keep up with the options.
2. If I do find someone attractive, I start evaluating them on TC. I'm at $350k TC so I only wanna engage with someone similar.
Sorry if it makes me sound judgemental but that's my preference.
I also suspect that if I women got to know someone they were truly compatible with, they could look past the money issue.
A caveat to that is if the money issue means they will be in poverty and can't raise kids. That's different.
You're already filtering out 99% based on income. Then I'm sure you have an age filter, cut out another 2/3rds so you're down around 0.3%. then I'm sure you have some physical appearance filter, let's put it at 0.15%. and then how many of that 0.15% are single? I think going down to 0.05% even is being generous here. Good luck finding that guy, actually liking him, and him actually liking you in your lifetime.
Not to mention you say you're a "girl next door". This 0.05% guy is probably fine with and can easily get a smoking hottie that makes $50k/year or less. Where does that leave you?