Should I dump my boyfriend?
Hello Blind, I am a 28yo female software engineer living in the South Bay. I am at a conundrum: I don’t know if I should dump my current boyfriend. I am pretty career oriented, while he is not at all and that bothers me. He pursued a liberal art degree and is basically working a minimum wage retail job, living with roommates. The problem is: he is really attractive and we also have very good sexual chemistry, something I looked for a long time. Before him, I tried to date tech folks but for some reason it never worked out, I lost interest quickly and our sexual compatibility was also horrible, they all had very low stamina and were working way too much to be in the mood for fun. I am sure I might have been part of the problem, but I feel I am attractive enough, I work out, stay fit and take care of my skin, so I don’t understand why my man wouldn’t want to jump on me all the times (this current one does lol)! TC: 320k
Sounds pretty shallow, but whatever suits you.
Your post looks as fake as your TC.
Plenty of real men out there, dont be afraid to walk alone for a while. Tinder.
What’s your definition of “real men”?
DUMP HIM ASAP.
Does $320k TC for 28yo sound common for a sw engr in bay area?
You sound like a 💎 in the 💩 of Bay Area dating
I notice that in the Bay Area girls really don’t have self esteem, when they’re literally diamonds.
Until you find out they’re a 3/10. So many high TC fugly girls here
Interesting! What he lacks in TC he has in sex in it?
You should move on, OP.
The most important question you should ask yourself is: does he make you happy? And if this is your goal with the relationship, then try not to focus so much on what degree or job the person has. That stuff changes.