Should I dump my boyfriend?

Nov 30, 2019 52 Comments

Hello Blind,

I am a 28yo female software engineer living in the South Bay.

I am at a conundrum: I don’t know if I should dump my current boyfriend. I am pretty career oriented, while he is not at all and that bothers me. He pursued a liberal art degree and is basically working a minimum wage retail job, living with roommates. The problem is: he is really attractive and we also have very good sexual chemistry, something I looked for a long time.

Before him, I tried to date tech folks but for some reason it never worked out, I lost interest quickly and our sexual compatibility was also horrible, they all had very low stamina and were working way too much to be in the mood for fun.

I am sure I might have been part of the problem, but I feel I am attractive enough, I work out, stay fit and take care of my skin, so I don’t understand why my man wouldn’t want to jump on me all the times (this current one does lol)!

TC: 320k

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  • Medtronic oliverjade
    Your post looks as fake as your TC.
    Nov 30, 2019 0
  • Flagged by the community.

  • GE / Ops PK-RC10
    Does $320k TC for 28yo sound common for a sw engr in bay area?
    Nov 30, 2019 9
    • Apple
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      Apple

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      ST8Pr1d3more
      Glassdoor is absolutely the worst place to find salary info for big tech
      Nov 30, 2019
    • GE / Ops PK-RC10
      Yeah figured was out of whack b/c it didnt match up with COL. thx
      Nov 30, 2019
  • Docker / R&D
    SQL_Inject

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    SQL_Injectmore
    You sound like a 💎 in the 💩 of Bay Area dating
    Nov 30, 2019 3
    • Docker / R&D
      SQL_Inject

      Docker R&D

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      SQL_Injectmore
      Until you find out they’re a 3/10. So many high TC fugly girls here
      Nov 30, 2019
    • Cisco unit-test
      So many high TC ugly dudes with small d*cks too.
      Dec 1, 2019
  • You like the sex. You’ll find the sex more attractive with someone with higher TC eventually. Confirmed thot.
    Nov 30, 2019 0
  • Amazon trailblzer
    Sounds pretty shallow, but whatever suits you.
    Nov 30, 2019 0
  • Uber / Eng itsdara1
    Men rarely grow up. Take it or leave it. At least he's not deceiving you into thinking he's the long-term family kinda guy. If you can afford him then go for it but I doubt it. Eventually you'll get tired of running the household by yourself.
    Nov 30, 2019 3
    • Uber / Eng itsdara1
      I stand by my statement. Get married and see who change and who remain the same. Women expect their husbands to change after they get married, while men expect their wives to never change. But guess what? Boys will always be boys, the only thing that changes is their toys get more expensive as they grow older.
      Dec 1, 2019
    • New EOLj48
      I was about to feed the troll. Phew !
      Dec 4, 2019
  • Hotwire MrSapiens
    Looks like the guy is doing pretty well. He's having time of his life by dating you and having all that he wants, while taking minimal stress. The real question is, can you afford him? He's not expensive but you might want to become one. So, that's the real question . Since relationships are often like job, the simple advice would be to keep looking until you find a better one.
    Nov 30, 2019 0
  • Confluent 0xio
    If you're asking the question means you should dump him. Stop trying to find excuses to dump him elsewhere. Own up your desire to dump him and just do it.
    Nov 30, 2019 0
  • New kplay
    If you're thinking of dumping him, you don't like him as much. Do it.
    When I like someone, that's the last thing I think about.
    Nov 30, 2019 4
    • Intuit 364689
      I think he’s great except I feel he doesn’t care as much as my ex. Meaning if i tell him I’m stressed he’ll say some generic response saying it’ll get better. I’ve been stressed on wether to cut things off or if I should give him more time if he’s shy. He mentioned he hasn’t dated in more than 2 years
      Dec 1, 2019
    • New kplay
      Pm me. Got some advice
      Dec 1, 2019

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