Misc.Feb 13, 2020
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TC obsessed friend

I’ve had this friend for almost 10 years, been in same high school & college, we have fun together and share lots of personal secrets with each other, Ive put all my trust in him. Now we both get decent jobs out of school -!: work for a few years. (hes at another company tho) But now he seems to turn into someone else, hes extremely obsessed with TC, almost every recent conversation between us is about he heard “another friend” got ***K TC from company ABC, someone just got a promotion, he wants to increase TC by **% in next year, etc. I’m feeling a little uncomfortable or even sick of hearing those topics constantly, and I feel like our values are two worlds apart now, and those conversation also make me feel extremely stressful and unhealthy. This person seems no longer to be the person I used to know. Should I just cut tie with him? But I know him for many years and been good buddies til now. Is he being toxicized and brainwashed by bay area environment? Or is it normal during the process called “grow up”? Im still quite young and wanna hear your guys’ thoughts. 3 YOE 250K

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Amazon Thoor Feb 13, 2020

Just tell him you want to talk about something else?

Facebook xbnshns OP Feb 13, 2020

It’s not about one topic during one conversation, it’s more about our values start to differ so much, and he’s putting tons of peer pressure on me.

Amazon Thoor Feb 13, 2020

Ok. Then drift off I guess. I don’t mean to say this callously, but I have been enough for sometime to know that I don’t want to make my life miserable for the folks around me. I prefer to hang out with folks I enjoy spending time with

Oracle cracka Feb 13, 2020

He’s tailored made for Blind it sounds like.

GetInsured Old Monk Feb 13, 2020

HAHAHA! Stole my words

LinkedIn ysba Feb 13, 2020

He might not be at Facebook making as much money as you. Get him a job at fb.

American Express gandalf$$ Feb 13, 2020

A lot of people in the Bay Area are like that. The Bay Area “turns” them into tc hungry vampires. My friends from other states have never talked about tc. I once saw tech dudes at a night club in the Bay Area talking about tc while girls were dancing alone..... you really cant make this shit up.

Apple mxOQ62 Feb 14, 2020

which bar and when tell me now

American Express gandalf$$ Feb 14, 2020

In downtown man Jose. Can’t even remember the name of the bar and don’t care.

Roku code🐒‼️ Feb 13, 2020

Does he work at blind?

Facebook dlifts Feb 13, 2020

Tell him you are making 400k and he will no longer be your friend.

Facebook NWyg33 Feb 13, 2020

Sounds exactly like me. Is this Joe?

American Express gandalf$$ Feb 13, 2020

Hello...you. This is Joe Goldberg...

Microsoft TeamAlpha Feb 18, 2020

@gandalf$$ LOL, only people who watched “you” can relate 🤣

Google ukvR18 Feb 13, 2020

Wait why would you mention your TC in a post about how people are obsessed with TC ?

Facebook xbnshns OP Feb 13, 2020

Because otherwise ppl won’t reply....it’s not like showing off because my TC is just mediocre.

Google jdbb Feb 13, 2020

Tc mediocre @ 3 yoe. Ok buddy

Rally Health FUPayMe$$ Feb 13, 2020

Sounds like me. I have become the same way.

American Express gandalf$$ Feb 13, 2020

TC?

Rally Health FUPayMe$$ Feb 13, 2020

180k. That's the reason. I am preparing hard for interviews right now to get my tc to 250k at least. Household tc is 380k. My aim is to get it up to 500k by switching jobs.

Ciena blessed❤️ Feb 13, 2020

Maybe he just started using blind 😁 it can change people