Tired of not being looked at, just going to get worse

May 18, 2019 19 Comments

I don't know what to do when I feel alone when dating. Some days I have the confidence, go onto the apps, and fail.

I'm gay and azn too so that's a whole other story. It's actually quite embarrassing going to bars and realizing nobody looks you in the eye when you meet them because guys don't even want you as a friend, and girls want to chase after other guys. It's depressing when people won't even try. I didn't choose to be born untouchable, really. This isn't the case but I'm sure we all feel this way in some respect.

Recently I found out I'm gonna go bald young too. Short, bald, and azn. Honestly even the sugar daddies will stop messaging me to be a borderline prostitute. So what then?

At least I have a money? I have at least 1 money. And no family


What do? I'm ready to just check out and go into "burn it all" mode and stop giving a fooook

TC: about 6 fig


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TOP 19 Comments
  • Adobe Cvvh32
    I have often observed that when you don't care, you get it :) All the best
    May 18, 2019 3
    • Amazon Djwofnr
      Okay. Dracarys
      May 18, 2019
    • Facebook 001002
      If you wanna talk feel free to PM me, feel like this is very common problem among friends of mine
      May 18, 2019
  • Oracle / Eng aham
    Modern dating is toxic irrespective of your sexual preference. Its not you!

    Don't lose heart!
    May 18, 2019 1
  • Cadence qwer09
    Op, what's your tc? Any sw eng will have 100k so 6-fig doesnt say anything.
    May 20, 2019 1
    • Oracle Binte Dil
      how does it even matter?
      May 20, 2019
  • Microsoft


    Sup, brah?
    It’s all about confidence. I know plenty of gays who are into Asians.
    May 18, 2019 1
  • Roku gdhdhch
    West coast? If you are skinny(and a bottom) you could pull off twink pretty easy. Non West coast I've seen it be pretty popular. Don't worry about hair, look at Elon musks old photos.
    May 18, 2019 0
  • Google / Eng 🍑☁️
    First of all, get some rogaine. Second of all, there are plenty of gays who like Asian dudes.
    May 18, 2019 0
  • Autodesk sodjdjekrm
    Try to see beyond all the things people are running behind, most times we run behind things and others cause we’re insecure of being alone. Try working on those insecurities and be confident and comfortable in who you are, put others on the do not care list.
    May 18, 2019 0
  • LinkedIn 黃帝
    Sorry bro. I hope you get a short bald boyfriend and can be happy
    May 18, 2019 1
    • Glassdoor zkkz
      Linkedin - I hope you too
      May 18, 2019
  • Indeed VqOC15
    Do you have a hypothesis for why you're not meeting people -- and what you're not doing differently?

    It's not that you're asian. There are so many gay guys into Asian guys in Seattle (myself being on that list).

    One thing you learn over life is that you're usually unconsciously creating the problems in your life that you're feeling victimized by.
    May 25, 2019 0
  • Intel manuev
    OP get fit bro. Not necessarily through the gym - could be yoga, running whatever. Get a dog if you don't have one already. Love that dog, take it on long walks daily before and after work. Hang out at dog parks and outdoors, skip the bars. Things will work out. I know plenty of short bald men who have no problem attracting dates. It's all about confidence and not acting desperate.
    May 18, 2019 0


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