Ugh, can we all just agree to use condoms?
Hung out w a guy for the 5th time last night. After making out for a while I said “I want you,” next thing I know, he’s in me - w/o a condom. I wasn’t even fully undressed- still had underwear on. The second I noticed, I pushed him out of me, told him I felt violated, asked why he didn’t use one. He said he didn’t know I wanted to use a condom. He also said he didn’t have an excuse and apologized. I said it’s a given to use one. I said “Why would you not? I’m not on the pill and if you did this with me you probably did this with others, and you don’t know where I’ve been” he apologized so at least he realized it was wrong. I said don’t do it again, with anyone.
Told my girlfriend about it and she said something similar happened to her.
This isn’t the first time a guy has tried to sleep with me without using protection, but it’s the first time a guy actually followed through with not using one. Feeling violated. 😔
I get that sex without condoms feel better, but it feels like some (not all) men don’t realize the potential consequences of unprotected sex. It’s a big deal.