Both of these girls are exes that I dated for at least a year each. We had broken up due to external circumstances that have since changed. I've been talking to both of them recently and am trying to figure out who I should get back with. We're all in our early 30s and I'm looking to get married at this point. Girl 1 -Shy -Most hard working and disciplined person I know -Down to earth -Top 1% of her field Girl 2 -Very personable, great host -Street smart -experienced, sophisticated, refined taste -Top 10% in her field Who would make a better wife? Who would be a better role model for kids?
Why are you thinking about marriage if you are not even dating them?
I have dated them in the past. I know then both very well.
They likely have grown/matured since then. Even if you start dating them now, typical western people won't marry for at least 3 years
Unless the doctor is in a specialty that is very much shift work (anesthesiology, emergency medicine, etc) the go with the professor.
The better looking one
Doctor is hotter but also older than Prof by 4 years
Who's hotter
Doctor is hotter but also older than Prof by 4 years
4 years isn’t much of a difference when all of you are in the same age bracket. I’d say, go with the doc.
Marry both. You will thank me l8r
But wake up before you thank MSFT
Who do you enjoy talking to and spending time with ?
Both 🤷🏿♂️
Hot or good looking is fleeting. The one who is east to have a conversation. The one who is more loving and empathetic is the right choice. Other things are superficial
What makes you think either of them want to get back with you? Have there been any signs?
Yeah they both strongly hinted at it during our conversations
"Strongly hinted", what does that mean?
Why do people think girl 1 will make a better mom?
Dude you're way ahead of yourself, are you marrying an incubator or do you actually like these women? What makes you think you'll be a good dad?
I like both of them. They both like me. I'm just having trouble picking. All the women I've dated have told me that I'll make a good dad. I'm hard working, caring, smart, family oriented, financially secure
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Are you sure both exes want to marry you and not just to have fun?
This
Yeah