What's the big shabang with women and wedding? They get so emotional over it, wanting it to be so perfect, wanting everyone to take (fake) interest in them, their dresses, their shoes. To me it's just another meaningless event for society. I'd rather spend time with friends and family in a quiet ceremony on a weekend than obsess over it for months. What's up women. Please explain this madness to me!
Social conditioning. There are plenty of women who don't become bridezillas :)
I like the word bridezilla lolz
If they lose some weight are they still bridezillas?
Social and peer pressure.
Cause you only get married 4-5 times in a lifetime
Sadly, many women see it as the, or a climax of their life.
I’m a woman and I have limited interest in weddings. I would rather just throw a big, fun party without paying ‘the wedding tax’ on everything, wearing a big white puffy dress, and a lame and contrived ceremony.
Woman here and that’s exactly what I did
Not as big of a deal as you make it sound or see it in movies, maybe some women are actually like that. But it’s a special occasion and if my man isn’t as excited about it as I am, boy, somebody else will replace you for the vows. Go have fun with friends and family 🤣
Just tell him early so he know how much interest to fake
When we got married two years ago, we initially planned on a courthouse ceremony. Unfortunately both sets of parents threw a fit and demanded we have a big wedding with extended family and mostly their friends. Even going so far as to threaten not to come to our civil ceremony. My wife and I ended up paying for the entire thing and it was a nightmare. She planned most of it (I was traveling a lot for work at the time, and helped where I could) and all of her decisions were subject to criticism from our families. It was a terrible way to start our marriage and we both wish we would have just eloped. Maybe consider the fact that the pressure is coming from somewhere, and the brides are reacting to it. That was definitely the case with us. My wife is not anywhere close to crazy.
I like that your partner and you are spineless as a team. Good job working together.
It’s just how it is, accept it. It’s actually pretty complicated to plan a wedding and very expensive.
I feel you. I am a woman who is getting married next year and I would just like to run away at this point. I have literally no interest in being a one day heroine but I have so much family pressure that I have started losing hair. My wedding/expensive dinner party is going to cost me 60,000 dollars and I am not even happy. Everyday my mother questions that if I am actually a girl or not cuz she hasnt seen any girl who is so disinterested in her wedding. I am happy to hear you ideas on how I can avoid this. Every-time I say something to my parents they say that we have to do this to maintain our social status
Their house their rules.
I dont live with them.
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yeah 1 woman out of 100 doesn't justify the hashtag.
Not all women. Only enough to have a triple digit billion dollar industry.