This is awkward to talk about, but I don't feel the paternal bond with children of strangers like I do with relatives. My wife too. We're going to focus on being a good aunt and uncle.
I’m certain you are wrong. You think you won’t feel that way in theory but if you held a baby you knew you can keep as your own, you WILL feel the deepest bond. But either way, you seem to have made up your minds, so that’s that.
I think the question you're asking depends on where people are on their point in their life.
I'm personally just now getting financially stable and although I love my family & friends and enjoy simple things, my family doesn't have a house (renting) and I've been trying to get a better job in order to become more financially secure and buy a house of our own.
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I'm personally just now getting financially stable and although I love my family & friends and enjoy simple things, my family doesn't have a house (renting) and I've been trying to get a better job in order to become more financially secure and buy a house of our own.