How do you deal with people who wronged you in your career? Do you let it go, seek revenge or move on?
Elsa the Wise once sang a song about this
For people who wronged you, the best revenge is them seeing you being successful or happy with no regards to them. Vengeance only burns you from inside and hinder your happiness. It's not worth putting someone like that in our mind. Just be grateful for the lesson and move on
Walk away. Free your mind and environment of this issue.
Don't let them live in your mind rent free.
Beautifully put
Can you give an example of what happened without giving details about you? 😊
Not possible, but it’s more about how to deal with it as it’s likely to happen again.
We all have those situations. Keep your head calm and prepare for the incidents that happen too often. I share my office with an asshole. He would try to put me down any chance he got. There are certain matters that he would push me on and I would try to reply politely. One day, I prepared for what I want to say to stop this repeating again. I was very honest about my feelings and was vey harsh at saying how his comments made me feel. He got the point and backed off. Now he knows, if he crosses the line, he will not be able to get away with it
Read the first few pages of "Law of the Garbage Truck" for the everyday things. For the big things, you just have to forgive and forget. Unless they will continue to be a part of your life, it is easier to let go.
Get to a better TC than them.
Let it go...
Don’t worry about revenge. The best revenge is a life well lived. Focus on the things you can control.
Who wouldn't want revenge, we are not all saints, but I have have to move on, even though I can't let it go
It haunts me and I can’t figure out how to get over it.
Forgiveness is a matter of the heart, it has nothing to do with right or wrong. If you can't truly forgive, I would consider you a saint... But for us other mere mortals, we live with the pain. That is why thise if us who have other important things in their life are blessed, imagine having a hike, a 5 year old who runs to yo evvery day and jumps on your lap telling you what she did all day. Doesn't it make easier to get over that bastard at work then? Perhaps even makes it easier to forget and forgive, since you have other things in life more important. Unfortunately, I a in the boat where there is no one waiting for me in that empty apartment, and I guess I am doomed