Marrying to increase net worth vs marrying for love

Mar 30, 2016 264 Comments

I'm a software engineer working for the Big 4 for some time now and looking to have a good career trajectory. I'm 28 and pretty chill in my life right now . I'll float a question that's been bothering me for some time now.

I feel love is very transitory and I could teach myself to love any girl, if so what should I give more importance when choosing to commit to s person for marriage! (Assuming the candidates are normal, smart and good looking at the same level).

Please help out with your responses

Backstory for this question:
I'm dating these two smart and pretty girls, one of them is an engineer (who could make and stay in low 100ks in her mid career). And on the other hand a doctor girl in her residency (she has a good scope to make higher 200k+ for most of her career). I really like the engineer girl way more than the doctor, but the doctor girl is probably going to be more stable financially for a greater net worth. I'm very much into the engineer girl, but confused who to take more seriously and build the relationship towards marriage.

Ideas appreciated! Thanks

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