tech people with high TC, when someone shows interest in you, are you worried they’re after your $? Has that ever affected potential friendships or relationships from happening? Has the thought ever crossed your mind? Would you care if they’re friends/lovers that initially were drawn to you because of that but do not use you for money? Or, do you not even care if you are used as long as you have that friendship or relationship? edit; many people have assumed I am in tech in a tech role even though it says HR in my user. I do not have high TC and am merely wondering if people who do make more than 70k ever worry about people wanting them for money.
Hahahaha 99% of people on here don’t make enough for people to be considered gold diggers 😂 Real gold diggers go after the founders and people that make 10x what some dev make in different industries
Okay so uhhh bronze diggers!
Bronze is an alloy, you can't dig for it. ha!
You think tech people are attractive?
It’s in your mind. I don’t felt that way. Even if they use you it’s okay and you might also need help from them time to time.
I don’t make enough money for that to be a problem in the Bay Area.
I assume you cannot avoid the fact that women are more attracted to people making more money, I think it may however be due to the traits that come with success - determination, having purpose etc. that may still be OK for you, not sure. Sometime it may only give you extra leverage and on the other it may be the sole purpose of the relationship. You likely have to just feel it and see. For me personally, i dont like spending on luxuries up to a point I see it useless and in general only see money as a tool to make things happen and change. If she would have different opinion I maybe naively believe I would be able to spot it and our personalities would clash
OP - 1) you probably don’t have that much money 2) use a prenup 3) flush the condom down the toilet yourself
I don’t have money at all! I’m just curious how people feel. I’m the one daring a tech person and we’ve talked about how I’m not after his money but I’m curious again how others feel.
You should fix Rovers hiring issue rather than posting on here. Nobody wants to rebuilt your website as a take home project 😆
Get a low TC job. Then you don’t have to worry about this. Trust me, I have experience here. It’s how I know my wife loves me
How will they know you have high TC, unless you tell them
seriously, what a stupid problem to have
Why stupid, I find it reasonable