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Oct 14, 2017 32 Comments

This is really a long shot, but I need some advice on what I can do to find a girlfriend. Never mind that my post title, my opening sentence, and what I'm going to ask for at the end (PM's from girls on blind) don't really have any connection to each other. Just bare with me for a few paragraphs.

I'm an male, mid 20, working in software.

1) I have a modest social circle, I do judge myself based on the quantity of my friends, not the quality. Most of them waste time trying to up their tinder game, or attempt to get in the friend zone with girls that were never interested in the first place, or go after girls that are in a stable relationship or out of their league. We don't really have a lot in common other than trying to find girlfriends.

2) I'm white. Most white girls are mentally destroyed by an addiction to social media or reality TV. Even my sisters. I understand there are exceptions, but women are really good at hiding their insecurities and baggage. Dating anyone non-white isn't an option because stepping outside of my cultural boundaries is uncomfortable to me.

3) I've tried online dating, and my generalizations are that women that date online have dated a lot of men to attempt to fill this void that couldn't be filled, can't realize that their expectations are so high that they will never find a meaningful relationship, or are bat shit crazy.

4) I've never had a problem getting dates and I do ask out people randomly. Physical attraction to each other is always a part of a relationship, but I do need to spend time with someone to get to know them on a deeper level (shocking). I always have issues when the girls get to know me better, and their attraction to me shoots up 2x or 3x when they see my car and house and realize I'm going to be able to retire in a few years. That's when I find it hard to be comfortable.

I'd really appreciate some advice, even though I'm confused on what advice I'm asking for not. No trolls please.

And, icing on the fucking 🍰.... PM me if you are looking for a boyfriend. Only if you are nice, centered, white, not addicted to social media, and don't care if I have 10 million or 10 dollars in the bank.

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    Move to New York. Bay Area sucks !
    Oct 14, 2017 1
    • NYC is really great for dating. High guy girl ratio and many guys gay on top of that. Fairly easy to find smart girl with good job. Still stay away from the bossy liberal white women.. many asian or indian with great education and job looking for decent guys

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      Oct 14, 2017
  • If you have that kind of money, rent out a cheap apartment and move there. Buy a student car and use that for first few months. Rent out your existing house. Don't mention about your fancy car or house. That would take care of your concern about gold diggers.

    You should seriously try dating non whites too. You'd not be disappointed. Try to learn about other cultures. It's very different and would develop your outlook better. Try dating Italian, Indian, Chinese or whatever.

    Instead of tinder try apps like coffee meets bagel where you'd see a different quality of crowd. Go for a girl who is highly educated and you'd see she is making same money as you and wouldn't care much how much existing money you have coz either she also has a bunch or she knows you both have long life ahead and will be able to make enough. Good luck.
    Oct 14, 2017 4
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    Lol. This post has so many fucking red flags no matter no woman would give you the time of day. Go post on /r/incels with the rest of you inept socially awkward creeps. More chicks for the rest of us...
    Oct 14, 2017 0
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    Reads like the ambersand fake Chinese girl post - someone runs social experiment here, which I guess what blind is all about
    Oct 14, 2017 2
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