This is really a long shot, but I need some advice on what I can do to find a girlfriend. Never mind that my post title, my opening sentence, and what I'm going to ask for at the end (PM's from girls on blind) don't really have any connection to each other. Just bare with me for a few paragraphs.
I'm an male, mid 20, working in software.
1) I have a modest social circle, I do judge myself based on the quantity of my friends, not the quality. Most of them waste time trying to up their tinder game, or attempt to get in the friend zone with girls that were never interested in the first place, or go after girls that are in a stable relationship or out of their league. We don't really have a lot in common other than trying to find girlfriends.
2) I'm white. Most white girls are mentally destroyed by an addiction to social media or reality TV. Even my sisters. I understand there are exceptions, but women are really good at hiding their insecurities and baggage. Dating anyone non-white isn't an option because stepping outside of my cultural boundaries is uncomfortable to me.
3) I've tried online dating, and my generalizations are that women that date online have dated a lot of men to attempt to fill this void that couldn't be filled, can't realize that their expectations are so high that they will never find a meaningful relationship, or are bat shit crazy.
4) I've never had a problem getting dates and I do ask out people randomly. Physical attraction to each other is always a part of a relationship, but I do need to spend time with someone to get to know them on a deeper level (shocking). I always have issues when the girls get to know me better, and their attraction to me shoots up 2x or 3x when they see my car and house and realize I'm going to be able to retire in a few years. That's when I find it hard to be comfortable.
I'd really appreciate some advice, even though I'm confused on what advice I'm asking for not. No trolls please.
And, icing on the fucking π°.... PM me if you are looking for a boyfriend. Only if you are nice, centered, white, not addicted to social media, and don't care if I have 10 million or 10 dollars in the bank.
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You should seriously try dating non whites too. You'd not be disappointed. Try to learn about other cultures. It's very different and would develop your outlook better. Try dating Italian, Indian, Chinese or whatever.
Instead of tinder try apps like coffee meets bagel where you'd see a different quality of crowd. Go for a girl who is highly educated and you'd see she is making same money as you and wouldn't care much how much existing money you have coz either she also has a bunch or she knows you both have long life ahead and will be able to make enough. Good luck.