Misc.Jan 16, 2020
NeweUJP87

starting a family

been married for 3 years. wife just turned 30 . i an 32. we are thinking about starting a family . we sre stil renting living in bay area . savings (non 401k ) stocks and cash about 360k no other debt . student loans and car paid off . have been very conflicted about starting a family or making one big hustle for a coupke of years and then stay on one income. potential tc on one income 220- 300k. its even split for now . combined tc 300k

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Amazon awspm Jan 16, 2020

Go for it! You won’t regret it

Amazon SunnyWhale Jan 16, 2020

If you are thinking about starting a family why delay it? Its better to start now instead of regretting later of not doing it sooner.

Google 4EVR Jan 16, 2020

If you want to start a family some time, then now is the time. You will thank me later.

Amazon zao-an Jan 16, 2020

Yes. We started late 30s. We’re tired ALL the time. And our kid will be in college when we’re ~60.

Facebook sxjj41 Jan 16, 2020

Yeah go for it! You are mostly limited by your wife’s biological clock

Cisco sirblargal Jan 16, 2020

Why would you hustle to place all your financial security on one person and still make the same TC? Just start your family dude

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uHlr41 Jan 16, 2020

People who conceive without much effort are lucky. Please don’t delay you are already running against the clock.

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Go for it!

Citadel BrutеForce Jan 16, 2020

The sooner the easier it'll be physically for both of you. First 3 months are brutal, next 3 months hard. After first the year it's such a joy though.

McKinsey mrMiyagi🍆 Jan 16, 2020

I had my first when wife was 35.. imo wait no rush in doing early

McKinsey mrMiyagi🍆 Jan 16, 2020

Of course depends on your ability to 💦 and your wife’s reproductive health..

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uHlr41 Jan 16, 2020

You need to cut out pornhub from your life for now

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mrgrieves Jan 16, 2020

Get'er done dude.