Work is going well, I get paid relatively well but deep down I am absolutely tormented. I put on a good face and sound energetic but nothing makes me happy anymore. I've always wanted to do a startup but everytime I do market research into areas I'm interested in or anything of the sort I lose interest and watch pointless YouTube videos.
I have no game with women. It crushes me more than it should when i get rejected.
My happiest was when i was in college hustling for every opportunity. I suppose I need some rigorous target so that I can succeed but this isn't a way to live life.
Any advice? Life just feels like going through the motions with no end in sight. I should be thankful and living fully, I'm 23 and make 200k. None of this makes any sense to me and I just feel so goddamn weak.
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So yeah, join a startup where the people check out. It’ll make life a lot more interesting. Try to get out of the house more often too, sounds like lockdown/WFH is also getting you down. I feel the same way too sometimes.
Nonetheless, don’t feel bad for feeling bad for being rejected (lol sorry for the long sentence, didn’t sleep last night). Rejection from friends, women, workplaces hurt a lot, you’re not a loser due to that.
You can DM me if you feel like chatting. I’m 26, not too different but 3 years do help you cope better with stuff when you’re in your 20s. Stay safe!
It’s about not feeling fulfilled.
Read “the courage to be disliked” and focus on finding your community feeling.