Would love to get some general thoughts, particularly from those those have experienced both cities. Currently NYC based but considering a move to LA for weather/proximity to family in SoCal. Work in BD in media, but open to other (related) opps
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The first 5 years of my career I was based in NYC. After 5 years I was worn out and tired of the city. I was looking to move to LA for the weather, hiking, beach...and then I just happened to be offered a job in LA. It was the same pay but I took it to get out of the city.
When I got to LA I almost immediately realized it wasn’t for me. A lot of music I was working with was in Hollywood and downtown, so I lived in Hollywood. When you live in Hollywood it’s an hour to the beach so you almost never go because of traffic. Weather is nice but I really missed the rain and snow more than I thought I would.
I moved to Culver City my last 2 years because of my job at google and being close to the Playa office. I almost never saw my friends because they wouldn’t come to culver and I wouldn’t drive to Hollywood / downtown.
Ultimately I was just lonely in LA. I knew about traffic in LA, but what I didn’t know was just how badly it would affect my daily happiness. I missed the shared experience of being around people in the morning and evening on a subway. I missed random encounters with strangers (good and bad). I missed chatting with a coworker at 5:30 and then just deciding to hop in the bar on the corner for an after work beer. I almost never grabbed quick beers with coworkers because everyone had to drive home, or get ready for an event, or take a nap before going out for the night.
I also found it hard to get into a steady group of friends. Partying is on a different level in LA, which is fine every once in a while, but in my late 20s/early 30s I didn’t really want to party every night. If partying every night was my thing, my entire experience would have been different.
I wound up relocating back to NYC in March 2020, 1 week before everything shut down. Even though it’s been kind of lonely with the pandemic, there’s still a sense of community here that I just didn’t feel in LA. Even when NYC was the epicenter of the pandemic, I still would have rather been in NYC than LA.
Also worth noting that I have zero family west of Kentucky and travel to home wasn’t easy / cheap.
Sorry for the long reply!
I feel a stronger sense of community everywhere in NYC during the pandemic. Someone started a group whatsapp with everyone in my apartment building and we all actually use it. The last time I lived in NY I couldn't tell you a single one of my neighbor's names or what they looked like.
I don’t think NY is the forever solution, but in my work journey, I sure feel happy to have leapt for it rather than remain unhappy or “feeling stuck”.
I was run down from commuting, but with work from home, work feels a bit more manageable.
Happy new year!