Anyone married to an asexual spouse? How do you cope? My story: 16+ years, 2 kids. We love each other and she does get attracted to me often and says she wants to have sex but when the time comes she finds it very hard to garner the will. She feels guilty but can't change what seems like a mystery ...Read more
My girlfriend has become overweight (visibly and on the BMI). It is causing an issue for me sexually as I’m unable to be aroused the same way I used to be so we aren’t able to engage in any activity. She asks me whats the issue and I have to tell her it’s nothing related to attractiveness each time...Read more
I’m 31 with a lot of dating experience. Body count 56. I can’t find a girlfriend material good girl is also in shape like me. I want to settle down and eventually make a family. TC 400K NW $2Mil I have a real estate portfolio. Have 6 pack My only “con” is that I’m 5’6”. But people say I look real...Read more
Two years since I moved to Fremont, California- struggling to make real connections or friends- someone I could go for a walk with every evening or morning and chat with long hours or volunteer with. Neighbors are uninterested. Tried few WhatsApp groups and kids daycare friends parents- connection i...Read more
Attractive and successful men are dating multiple women exclusively. These women don't know and don't ask about other women. As a result there are less women left to pair with average men. Think about it. If there are 10 men and 10 women in a group. If one man dates 3 of the women, there will be 2 ...Read more
On the first date. Never met her in person before. Just chatted online. Indian male here but I don’t look like a typical Indian male. I am tall, fair skinned and keep myself fit and have interests outside TC comparisons.
Want to have fulfilling *ex with my hubby but he doesn't show as much interest and is not able to satisfy me, what can I do? Communication is sparse in this area and any small suggestions I make lead to male "ego hurt" and I REALLY don't want to hurt him. He is really really nice hubby overall but ...Read more
I was in a 12 year relationship however I’m now divorced and started dating again (45) but I notice I’m only attracted to women in their 20’s my friends think I’m a odd and this isn’t right I find myself only attracted to younger women I know most are only looking for fun but I don’t seem to mind on...Read more
With rent and housing so damn high how do guys generally go about getting physical with a woman if living with parents or a roommate to save on costs is almost mandatory? I don’t want to hear a sarcastic “you don’t” response either TC: $200k
Somehow, I ended up with a wife and kid (2 years old now). Due to both of us being on the older side, we kinda rushed into having a child. However, I've recently come to the realization that she might suffer from Borderline Personality Disorder. Anyone else out there in the same boat as me? Working ...Read more
Where she has a job that I don’t see as a real job and so I don’t feel we are similar types of people at all? I feel like another analytical mind would be best for me, how often is that feeling right in your exp? For LTR
As a good paychecks maker, raise two younger children. But still live cheap. Husband knows going outside for fun. I feel I am a cheap slave now. I feel depressed. Comparing with lots of women, I contribute most to family and I make good income. I am not happy .jealous of those women can have their p...Read more
My wife is a very good coder but a terrible singer and she has decided to take singing lessons and when she practices, it gives me an instant headache which lasts for minutes until she stops singing. When she started playing the piano, it was much easier because I could just ask her to wear her hea...Read more
Been married 8 years, and I am seeing my marriage crumbling in front of my eyes. Wife is a loving mother, but also a controlling narcissist. I'd even say she is a loving wife, but her love language is keeping control of me at all times, keeping my separated from my parents, cousins and relatives, an...Read more
- lives in the US - has no friends - works remotely - dating apps don’t work - mid 30s - generally introverted - non-Indian if it makes a difference been seeing escorts recently, but i’d like an actual gf.
I’ve been telling my wife for the past several yrs that I want to get a motorbike and she has always made a big deal abt it saying its so dangerous, that it will be an irresponsible decision etc etc This morning her sister mentioned that her husb has decided to get a bike. He never consults his wif...Read more
I’m getting really frustrated by my wife’s antics. $205k
Asian women spend all day talking about how much they hate white men but can’t wait to spread their legs for one. What’s up with that? #relationships #dating
I’m literally seeing this happen at the nightclub every Friday. Chicks of all kinds and races just look at him and gravitate to him, he’s on the dance floor with some girl, and someone gets taken home. It’s like clockwork every weekend.
Which fragrance do women like for their better half? #dating #marriage #relationships
There are girls who aren’t necessarily gold diggers, but they don’t want to work. They want to have fun all the time. Hikes in beautiful scenery. Jeep off roading. Cuddling watching movies. Picnics with friends. etc. Then you have your boss babe PhD girls like Zuck’s wife. Most don’t spend as much ...Read more
We are in late 20s, no kids. My wife and I come from different financial backgrounds, she coming from a higher one. We've had our differences while dating for 2 years but nothing major. I thought things will normalize after wedding. After almost 2 years of wedding (ie 4 years together), the issues ...Read more