Went to sleep at 2am, woke up at 4 with wife having contractions. Labor for 14 hours, baby. Cleaned and recovered and bonded with baby, now she’s ofc not letting us sleep. I’m just holding the baby while my wife sleeps since the baby sleeps ok when held but it’s 5am here and now I haven’t slept for...Read more
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Recently hired a babysitter for our toddler from an online forum. When it came to pay, she sent Zelle details of a different person. When asked, she said it’s her cousin. Under what circumstance would someone do that and why? I haven’t encountered this before. TC: 325K
Any afterschool recommendations focussed on Sports (No swimming), for a 4 year old boy? Location : Milpitas, Califiornia #tesla #nvidia #meta #apple
I'm a top SDE performer and my manager asked me to lead a new initiative with multiple devs. Really good for promo. But recently found out I'm pregnant. In my country we can choose to take 1 year of mat leave (not paid but small monthly stipend) but by then the first major project milestone would ha...Read more
I recently returned to work after an extended maternity leave due to a complicated delivery and multiple health issues that required a long recovery period. While I have physically healed, my return to work has been mentally challenging. I'm now part of a semi-new team working on new projects, and ...Read more
I know the answer is yes but can someone go into depth about how this dynamic with your friends change? Do you at least still play online games with them? Do you only hang out with other friends that have kids? Do you still see them often but not as much? Planning on having kids sometime soon but l...Read more
Can you please share daycare recommendation in south sanjose for toddlers? Any reviews about Tulip Kids on cottle road, san jose?
#parenting Has anyone experienced todder screaming in middle of night scared? My 2.5 yr old says she is scared of her room and bed. Refuses to go back to sleep unless we get her in our room. This is impacting her and our sleep frequently. Anyone faced this? What did u do?#workingparent
Mine I feel is entitled, a bit lazy, doing bare minimum. Gets good grades, but it is wrong for me to want to develop good habits of being curious and giving your best at everything? They are more interested in friends at this age.
With the way AI is changing every field, what is a good field to study? My kid is interested in engineering but not super smart but I don’t know if there would be enough jobs for them in twenty years. They are also interested in art but can’t do it as a full time career. What are you nudging your k...Read more
Evidently you can’t deny kids this type of stuff especially when other parents don’t care in a public school. I don’t have kids of my own but I do want to help where I can in the advice I’m sharing. My family friends have an 11 year old that’s doing the dances with short skirts, makeup, etc. They ...Read more
Found this on Reddit. She got rejected with a 4.0 high school GPA, 3.9 college GPA, 34 ACT, and an internship. Yes, I’m aware most applicants have a 4.0 in high school, but 3.9 in college isn’t easy to get. How does this happen? Any other parents worried for their kids? https://www.reddit.com/r/App...Read more
Title To the women who do, can you explain why?
I don't take advice from a cartoon dog, but gosh darn it, I wishy life was like theirs. Happy Mother's day everyone. Call your mom if/while you can.
Is it absurdly overpriced? My daughter has a heart condition, which is mostly fine but she sees a cardiologist every few months. Wife took her to SCH and we just got the bill, which started at $12k and after insurance is about $1k. They basically just had an ultrasound tech take an ultrasound of h...Read more
Let me start off by saying I was a pretty good employee who got promoted early in my work. Had few review meetings where I was praised and also had high compensation review for couple of years. This was when I was bachelor and probably I had that extra hour to spend on my work. Now I have a toddler ...Read more
We have a three year old daughter. While we both love her and would do anything for her, our relationship is suffering quite a lot. I planned a vacation to Florida last week and it was a debacle. Our daughter didn't let us sit and have a meal in peace. We couldn't go outside as our kid would run on ...Read more
Growing up, I was under the impression that women are always up for more kids and it’s the dad that usually says No. Now that I am married, and we have a couple of kids, I am still up for more kids, but my wife doesn’t want any more. Asked around a few of my friends, and they too have a similar dyna...Read more
I'm a new mom and I have a 7 month old baby that wakes up multiple times in the middle of the night, like 2am and 5am. I'm getting 7 hours of broken sleep a night and I am so tired when I wake up. It's hard to focus at work and sometimes I'll take a nap. Is it normal that I'm getting wrecked with a ...Read more