We are both working and already stressed with a 1 year old. Edit: Thanks Blind! One it is then 🫡
Almost midnight and I laughed when I saw this Yes it is way more stressful!
If you are stressed with one, then wait
Wouldn't recommend having two under 2.5 tbh
It’s a extremely stressful experience, first you need to survive and be peaceful to have memories , it’s more like you will be a memory to someone as risks are high that you might be ill coz of the stress . The ones who encourage are pure sadists who want ppl To fall into same trap like them and suffer hell
Doesn't the temperament of the kid matter? But yeah .. I gotta say .. people who encourage others to have kids .. I really wonder about their motives. Maybe it wasn't that bad in the old days. In the west with the way expenses (housing, childcare, schooling, etc.) and work (WLB, what's that?) is structured, I don't understand why anyone has kids.
Yes initially, but once the older gets older and the younger gets like 3 ish, they enagage and play giving parents some time back
yup. this. plus your only child would grow up really lonely without a sibling.
Create an army!
It’s stressful only short term. After 4 years or so, the kids play with each other reducing your load. Better if they are both boys or girls
Workload is reduced even with only children after this age as they find things they like doing independently, such as reading
Is this even a question?
Hell yes. it is more difficult. For us it’s been more than 2X
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Yes it’s not easy but same time you will enjoy those memories. I would suggest to have two kids.
You will have memories either way