Should I shoot my shot with this girl?
I broke up with my gf a while back and I took “custody” of our pets. I noticed that after I had updated my contact info with our vet to remove my ex, she has become a lot friendlier and chatty with me. I’m a frequent flier at the vet because our pets have chronic health issues, so I see her at least 2-3 times per month. I did some googling on this girl and found her Pinterest, and I saw a collection of dudes that look kinda similar to me lol. Admittedly, most of them are a bit more attractive than me, but we share the basics (white guy, brown hair, short trim beard). Maybe I’m being delusional, but I kinda feel like I might be her type. Should I shoot my shot with her? If I do and she says no, I might have to switch vets lol
Why not, go for it. It’s possible that she just felt bad for you since vets and animal lovers are in general compassionate people. Ask in a way that won’t make her feel awkward at her place of work!
Do you actually like her or only like that she likes you? I’m getting the latter from your post.
I definitely think she’s a cutie ☺️
Then go for it quit overthinking. She may not even like you back but you’ll have your answer at the least.
Go for it and report back here how it turned out.
ask her to do it froggy style and see if she comes up with some strange veterinarian moves
Do it, and if she rejects you say “BUT I SAW YOUR PINTEREST AND ITS FULL OF GUYS WHO LOOK LIKE ME! EXPLAIN THAT!!”
Lmao that would be a great way to definitely not be welcome back there
Thinking about Headshot?
Why are you sacrificing quality of care for your pets?
Hey this is the old grey lonely crusty beer belly future version of yourself; please dude, ask for her number. Take her back to your place eventually, use your pets as an excuse. I'm tired of reminiscing on all the missed connections. Major blue balls over here.
You should go for it. But, ask in a way where you give her an option to gracefully decline so that neither of you feel awkward about it (and perhaps you can still continue visiting this vet instead of finding a new one). Rooting for you! 😊
If you do it and she says no, you don't need to switch vet. What makes you think that refusing an invitation to go out has such a nuclear outcome? That's a very toxic point of view...
Ok, yes you are right, technically But I’d be too embarrassed to show my face again haha
Because straight people get weird about remaining friends after casual sex.