There’s someone in my friends’ circle that I’m really attracted to because they are a charming and a happy person, but I can tell with certainty that a relationship with that person will not work in the long term because of things I’ve observed about our personalities. I’m not into short term flings. Some of my closest friends are also close to them, so it’s been really difficult for me to get over this person because they show up everywhere I go. Anyone who has conquered this? I know a bunch of you are gonna tell me to find other friends, majority of my friends that I can effortlessly connect with, are friends with them. Real struggle. TC 196 k #relationships #dating
How do you know that your crush is into short-term flings? Maybe they would be open to a long-term relationship with the right person.
OP just said long term won’t work out and they don’t want short term fling.
Oh got it. I had thought that OP meant that Crush was into short-term.
This is just your brain chemicals OP . It happens have been there exact same situation. Read that a crush lasts for about 3 months and then it passes or u fall for someone else . I had fallen hard for a mutual friend but knew we were incompatible so I kept my distance would cancel a few meetups with our friends or see them separately. Distance helps clear your mind and think logically too now I can go back to dating in peace ✌️
You can do it , if u feel attracted to the person in a group setting your friends will pick on it . I used to behave differently and started getting teased that’s why saying from first hand experience.So if u absolutely don’t want to pursue this turn stay away from a few meetups
Thanks
Hmm looks like self discipline is the key
Why don’t you specify your gender so we can get context?
Give me gender neutral advice 😀
There’s no such thing