Hello everyone, I’m reaching out to gather some different perspectives on a personal and culturally specific situation. I’ve been married for 13 years, and my wife and I are both deeply rooted in our Muslim faith, which permits a man to have up to four wives. This context is essential as it informs...Read more
Parents of the girls reaching out to my parents, saying they are very interested and they have talked to their daughter but when it comes to talking to these girls they don’t want to talk. Then their parents get embarrassed when my parents tell them we were not able to reach out to their daughter. ...Read more
Went to a tantra retreat recently with my girlfriend Some reflections Most charlatans, especially middle ages Indian self proclaimed gurus project it as purely a sexual technique which was debunked Our experience was great. There was lot of emphasis on breathing, philosophical underpinnings, e...Read more
So I met this girl online, we chatted about one week, which was good, then we met. After the first date, we both agreed to a second date, and chatted for another few days, then she suddenly said she wasn’t ready to be in a relationship. I was really pissed off because I did ask this question when we...Read more
Married women with kids ! How do you manage sending money to support your parents back home ? Do you work it out with your husband on how much and how frequent to send and keep it aside from your salary ? Sometimes the topic of money to send back home adds saltiness to the relationship and wondering...Read more
Apps suck way too much of wasted time to finally meet someone irl #dating
My ex got married last year and I still dream about our time together, I drop him messages whenever I miss him which go into a black hole. I tried dating other guys but broke off because i couldn't stop thinking about him. My biggest fear is that if this continues then at my deathbed i will regret...Read more
I have a theory - white American women are too preoccupied with their careers, feminism, refusal to settle and have kids, and overall distaste for traditional values. Asian (as well as Eastern European women) are much more family-oriented and successful whit men want that in a woman. Agreed?#datin...Read more
Banning the word “overweight” will surely make these people less pathetic.
I got into a relationship about 2 years ago, in the USA. Both of us are immigrants. Our relationship is pretty good, ups and downs here and there, but our sex life is not that great, NGL. Being very honest, it’s because of me. I don’t have as much libido as much as I used to anymore. I do not know i...Read more
Early 30s male. I work as an engineer in the bay area. I have been struggling a lot lately and I have tried therapy and medication too. I have been struggling professionally I..e can't motivate myself to work and don't see a path to switch companies or teams due to visa and layoffs respectively. I ...Read more
My parents are looking for a groom in arrange marriage setup from India in US. I live in a different state than groom , met him twice felt ok but want to check background of him . Is there any trusted agency which will help in background check #dating #marriage #relationships
What are the avenues where such women hangout?
Or do you think remaining single is much more peaceful?
My bf is a straight male but he always wants to ask his best friend ( another straight male) to join us for adult fun together . I just don’t understand why straight man enjoy sharing his girlfriend with another straight male together? Can someone illustrate the logic behind it ?
My girlfriend whom I'm this close to finally marrying, has actions which are pissing me off. She's meeting an old friend from office who is visiting for a week in the city. I asked her to meet him during the office time and in an office setting, as she has no business to go out with him in night wh...Read more
You are on a first date with a total babe. You get in an elevator with them, and as soon as the doors close they rip a huge fart. You gag on the smell. They don’t acknowledge what they just did. Do you go on a second date? #dating #marriage #relationships
Indian guy in my 50s here, married 20+yrs. Wife is Korean Our married life has been good overall but like all other cpls we have our issues - day to day stress/arguments over finance, her spending habit, parenting, my job stress. We have 2 teenage children who give their share of stress to us. I p...Read more
Desis from California give much more importance to location, visa status, salary and the company one works for rather than trying to find out if they can establish a sense of connection with the other person! Do desis from California have a sense of entitlement? #dating #marriage #relationships
Ladies only - Who would you rather date? Man #1 - Job: Tech bro at FAANG, fully remote - TC: $500K - Height: 5’9 - Hobby: Gaming & Watching Netflix - IQ: 110 - Social Skills: 3/10 Man #2 - Job: Business Owner in a Plumbing Company - TC: $180K - Height: 6’1 - Hobby: Cars & Outdoors - IQ: 90 - Soci...Read more