This is weird logic which parents say kids will strengthen relationship and builds family, but what I see currently in a highly competitive places like Bay area is working couples with no kids themselves still need to plan to have fun together with their crazy schedules and career goals. I personally feel that kids are not needed to make a relationship or marriage better, on the flip side I feel people cannot focus on each other and at times they start feeling lonely as their spouse starts focusing on kids most of the time and less about partner. At times this might lead to lost connection. Especially in a place like this having kids is a super expensive affair in terms of buying house in good school zone (decent one costs around >2.3M), if decided to send for private they are even more super duper expensive. I see most of my friends chase these expenses and bump up their career goals to meet their ends to have decent life. They start to plan travel and hobbies based on entertainment for kids. Much time goes in spending with child 1-1 in terms of home works or hobby classes. Knowing all these, most of the people I personally meet to date wants child in future for sure which I personally feel is not going to help rather drains out all the spark in relationship in the midst of all those mentioned. Bottom line is I am unable find a partner who is ok without kids , everyone wants eventually.#marriage #relationships
Kids will hurt ur relationship not strengthen it, before u have kids ur relationship should be strong in order to survive having kids.
We have 7 children. Family and children have always been a priority for us. I canāt imagine life with just the two of us- it sounds so boring and monotonous. Iām sure youāll be able to find someone else who doesnāt want children. Iād probably just being very open and upfront with that details to try to find like minded people. Thereās some dating website specifically for people who donāt want children.
>We have 7 children I guess parental leave is the only way to get vacation time from Amazon
Do not have children to strengthen your relationship. Have children when you are both ready. It is extremely hard work and very stressful.
If you think like this, please, don't ever have kids.
Agree. If you think the joys of parenting come from providing children with the most expensive houses, schooling, and extracurricular activities/travel because you see thatās how other people are spending money then you will surely be miserable. People who actually enjoy the idea of raising a family, spending time together, instilling their values in their children and raising them up to be successful well-rounded adults who are capable of finding their own way in the world do not use the cost of their house or their childās college bill as measuring sticks for how well they have done in life or how much they enjoyed the journey with their partner.