I need to move. I need to get out of midwest and move to Bay Area. I don’t work in Infosys. Honestly last of my friends moved out from my city a year ago and although I’ve tried to play soccer and socialize, it just hasn’t worked. I have a high school friend and a University friend living where my actual employer is in the Bay Area and feel it’s the perfect place for me to be, so I can be more outgoing and have a bigger group to hangout with. I’ve been on my own for a very long time and forgotten about how to socialize. My confidence on a general day to day basis is reduced to absolute 0. Given the fact that Bay Area is the most expensive pay zone and I cannot just pack up and arrive there due to visa processes, how do I initiate this conversation with my manager? And what reason is a good reason to give? What do I say? Have you done this before? #depression #mentalhealth
Anybody?