MetaLftOvGuy

Concerns for Your Son's Future?

Looking at the poor dating prospects for men in the Bay Area, are any of you parents worried about how your son will do when he grows up? In the past, a man had to be successful financially and careerwise and he would most likely be able to get a wife, but in the Bay Area nowadays that is not true. If you are not worried for your son then what is your plan for him to get hitched? Conversely, if you have a daughter then you have nothing to worry about at all. She will be fine and at the very least bag a $500k+ TC husband who has no chance to cheat on her.

Brex XMbt24 Apr 28

There’s more to the world than the fucking Bay Area 😂

Northrop Grumman mcafey Apr 28

Nah you coasters stay along the coast

Meta LftOvGuy OP Apr 28

Sure, but if you are going to work in tech you have few choices not to mention that tech guys have it hard in NYC too.

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trchbrs Apr 28

lol. True.

Google bleh-_- Apr 28

Wow. This is some beta male thinking.

Meta LftOvGuy OP Apr 28

Most men especially most of us in the Bay Area are beta.

Google bleh-_- Apr 29

Fine but you can control a lot of things to make yourself more attractive - fitness, dressing well, hobbies, personal hygiene, forming opinions on things.

Cisco ihfybc Apr 28

Following

Meta flatting Apr 28

Do you worry about your grandchildren as well?

Almac Group Joe.Biden Apr 28

You just need to find someone you like who likes you back. Wtf is difficult to understand about that

Meta chat2 Apr 28

Why do you assume the bay is hard for dating? It's a huge population and very easy lol

Google dhibmd Apr 28

Problem for your son is you thinking you have any role in his adult romantic life. Lol

Meta WLCn58 Apr 28

My only concern is that these men don’t ask out women and overly rely on a technological interface as a middle man. It’s a numbers game, and too many men fear becoming their best selves (for men this is fitness over almost everything a man can affect), both in the work of presentation (fitness, fashion, hygiene) and in bravery of asking women out in person. She might say yes. Luck is just preparation + opportunity, and too many men curb their potential by being perpetually unready for the women they want to attract.

Asana rIXB65 Apr 28

Date outside of tech. My wife is a nurse. Fewer ego clashes. And less competition from her workplace.

ZenBusiness PBC VoteDem Apr 28

This. I’d never date anyone from tech. I’m an introvert, I want an extrovert to balance the relationship out.

Meta LftOvGuy OP Apr 28

This doesn't really work if you are Asian because there aren't that many Asians working outside of tech and non-Asians don't want Asian men.