Which one is worse to have had a marriage and then divorced or never got married ?
Never have a gf is the worst especially in your 30s. It’s better to date a divorced man vs dating a 30s M virgin
Guys who never had a girlfriend in their 30s are often “failures to launch” and have severe emotional problems. No one in their 30s wants to have to go through the awkward dating rituals of teenage years.
Even if they’ve had girlfriends if they’ve never had a super serious relationship same thing. But tbh I don’t mind if a guy doesn’t have much serious dating experience in his 30s.
Divorced with kid is best. Then you have a choice if or not to marry again.
You might invest in the kid but will never have the legal rights… to be a parent requires a significant investment of the heart, empathy and care not just the bio marker
You are legally a parent if you are a parent. When I'm 60 I'd rather have married and procreated than never married at all.
Divorce was never married starting off … so the presumption of the problem not happening is a bad guess Among those I dated , never married treated me worse … I am inclined to believe that the divorce has a different perspective of life , but statistically speaking the probability of an event happening again if it has happened earlier is significantly higher
Never married is worst. Initially in early 30s it looks ok, and as age proceeds it becomes horrible, your entire surrounding is married with kids, they all stop including you cos you no longer in their circle, you lose friends, you have to find community to cope up your loneliness. There may be freedom, but the loneliness is louder. Divorced is you tried and lost. Stil so much better in life and you will be free to live as you wish.
Tbh depends. Divorced means nothing really. Could mean you were good enough to marry Could also mean you’re intolerable. Not married also means nothing. Could mean you’re ready for commitment and have no baggage. Could also mean you don’t know how to make a relationship last / are really set in your ways (the older you are the truer this is / the bigger the sacrifice to your routines to get into a relationship). I feel like everyone should be given a fair chance regardless of their history
The worst is being divorced and bringing the same mistakes into your new relationships.