Everyone has this 3 date rule where you'll know whether this person can hold a significant place in your life. But honestly I don't know 3 dates doesn't feel like enough time. But then at the same time I know right away whether a person is for me or not but whether or not I choose to stop messing around with them or not is my choice. Like sometimes I just stay with people for to enhance the plot you know. Like they're fun and I like to be around them but making them my significant other, probably not 🤣. What do you think, at what date do you know whether or not they belong with you?
I don’t even know anymore. I was going to say I think I can rule out people pretty fast but that’s not exactly true. Sometimes it is - they want different things long term, are moving countries, have kids already, drink too much, or aren’t kind to waitstaff. But otherwise it’s hard to say. Instant chemistry is rare and has nothing to do with compatibility long term. So I guess I just wait and see if I start to like them more. The issue is typically progressing things fast while I’m still trying to figure out if I like them tends to result in things fizzling out - like I can’t sleep with someone immediately personally and that’s a huge issue for a lot of people. I never get that attached but I feel like I’ve met people I think are promising or maybe could get there but the physical part isn’t progressing and I feel bad about it so I let them go because I can’t stand the pressure to keep saying I’m not ready and probably if it’s that important to sleep together within a few dates we aren’t compatible.
1 date should be enough bro, if you know yourself well
You will never know. No person will be perfect. Even if they are, they'll change over time. You need to work on yourself and learn what higher-level things you care about and ensure the person won't change out of them. For me it's: 1. Are they honest about themselves. 2. Will they always want to try new things 3. Are they and will they remain committed through thick and thin 4. Are they smart enough to question the hotest trends in society You will naturally get an intuitive sense of whether that person fills those requirements over time... And that's your clear signal whether to continue or have the discussion.
1 date is enough to know someone belongs with me. Sometimes 1 hr is enough. And it only takes 1min to know someone is NOT for me.
You distill a person after 1 minute. Got it. How has your life been so far?
Great ☺️ married to someone who loves me ❤️
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When even after 3 dates, you feel there is nothing off about them, at the same time, don’t know if you should continue to pursue, I’d suggest take it further and see. Coz most times people don’t open up until 4th or 5th meet
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