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Arrange marriage for a white guy

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I have this white Canadian guy friend who just turned 40. Super nice guy but has been quite unsuccessful with ladies. He is hard working, trustworthy, very good cook and currently doing his MBA at a top US school. He is not bad looking either. Tall and has nice smile. He lost some of his hair and has a little belly. His TC was low 160k (hardware engineer) before MBA but he has already made 2-1.5 million in stocks. His family is well off too.

Do you think he will get some attention if I set up his profile on shaadi.com or arrange marriage market has no place for him?

PS: he doesn't know i am posting this here.

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  • Intel gptw4l
    I think putting his profile on shaadi.com would be a good test of their infrastructure.
    5d2
  • Microsoft do_needful
    Get a postal bride from Eastern Europe
    5d0
  • Cisco / Eng@blind@
    Sure it may work out.
    5d0
  • Qualcomm / Engdynasty001
    My personal trainer is around 38. He is jacked and says he has no troubles finding ladies. Can you be a better person and ask him to get on a personal training regime. It will do wonders for his self image and increase his chances of finding ladies.
    5d4
    • Google pciO74
      ...but what is your personal trainer's TC
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    • Qualcomm / Engdynasty001
      Man he says he earns over $10k a month. He does outdoor workouts. No gym, no equipment. Just him and his coworker. Pretty good to be able to earn that working for himself.
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    • Indeed / EngdnPd12
      TC measured in gainzzz
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    • Qualcomm / Engdynasty001
      4 pack abs. White guy. Clean shaven head. Drives a BMW. Has own business. Earns lots of money. Has interesting hobbies (he is a photographer as well). You would expect ladies to like him more than and indian nerd 🤓
      5d
  • Airbnb jim.hodlen
    do you think he’d want you to do that for him?
    5d4
    • OP
      Yeah he is open to it. He just laughs but I think he wants to it.
      5d
    • Airbnb jim.hodlen
      well doesn’t hurt to try I guess
      5d
    • Axtria BlindPts
      Ye uska ishtyle hoyenga, hoton pe na dil mein han hoyenga
      5d
    • Microsoft Ranveer
      ...tu tension kayko leta re
      5d
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    nfsmore
    You need to get his consent, otherwise you are overstepping your boundaries as a friend, breaking his privacy and probably the law.
    The better approach instead of asking a random bunch of strangers on blind will be for you to suggest that to him directly.
    And in the end, if he chooses to refuse your help, you need to accept it.
    5d3
    • OP
      I am not releasing any information about him. Just asking people if this is a good idea. I am pretty sure he wants one of us to create a profile for him as he is too shy.
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    • New
      nfs

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      nfsmore
      In that case, just talk to him about it, sit with him on the computer when you create the profile, market him properly in the profile and give him a lot of compliments to him to boost his self esteem.
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    • OP
      Right. He says he would like to try shaadi dot com 😊. I will do it when I get some free time
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  • Facebook Yuge
    Don't forget to mention if he has a green card or us citizenship. That might be more important than a personal trainer!
    5d1
    • OP
      Oh yeah..He does have a green card.
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  • Facebook frustsoul
    100 percent. Just clearly mention in the post that the candidate is indeed white and the profile photo is not fake or photoshopped.

    I am saying this as I had tried my luck on those websites but got no replies. Then my bleached my face white and there was thundering herd. However that quickly stopped after they complained that my face color did not match the color of my hands and neck etc.
    5d1
    • Spotify WizzAir
      How did you bleach your face white?
      5d
  • “He laughs but I think he wants it”
    You need a class on consent
    5d0
  • Microsoft D@re
    This is hilarious! There are so many dating apps to meet people which helps shy people, he might get other white females if he uses that. Does he want someone else to create the profile and manage this for him, like how the Indian parents do it for their kids?
    5d6
    • OP
      Of course he tried all that eharmony stuff. Didn't work out for him. He just wants shortcut to marriage. He doesn't mind trying arrange marriage route since he is fond of Indian girls.
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    • Microsoft Blare
      It’s just that most people on these sites are parents and most parents are looking for Indian men, but might be worth giving it a try. Do post an update if it works. Will keep the thread bookmarked.
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    • OP
      Sure, I will ask him if he is comfortable that we make his profile. :)
      5d
    • Microsoft Blare
      Good Luck! He has such a good friend like you. I wonder why he has trouble with women!
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    • OP
      Thanks. I don't understand why he can't find women. He is funny and charming and genuinely nice guy. I guess just hard to date in Bay area.
      5d
    • Microsoft Blare
      Maybe he behaves differently with women, or does something that you are not able to see. Even for an arranged marriage ultimately he will have to meet the girl and impress her, so might want to understand the real issue
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  • Juniper scandeep
    Tell him to go to Thailand and he’ll have a hard time to choose his lady.
    5d3
    • OP
      He doesn't leave his comfort zone. Told him to leave his comfort zone and try living in Korea, Japan, Thailand etc for a few months.
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    • Microsoft Ranveer
      juniper, i really hope your name is not sandeep
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    • Juniper scandeep
      Ah the beauty of Blind.
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  • Zulily AVXF18
    Beware of scams on that site!!
    5d0
  • Cisco / Eng@blind@
    I know there r highly educated girls who r not finding right guy
    5d0
  • US Bank / Finance
    LkYl04

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    There are three ways to make a living in this business. Be first, be smarter, or cheat.
    LkYl04more
    Lol is his visa expiring?
    5d1
  • In America, arranged marriages are called "blind dates." Just set him up.
    5d0
  • Salesforce
    Bhoot

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    I am blind to something and you are too.
    Bhootmore
    He'll feel like the most wanted man in the world. Lots of gold diggers might contact so tell him not to put his TC.
    5d0
  • Axtria BlindPts
    Yes. A lot of Indian Americans and Canadians also have profiles on matrimony apps. Worth giving a try, if he wants to.

    From what I heard from friends, the best ones are:
    Shaadi.com
    Jeevansaathi.com
    Bharatmatrimony.com
    5d0

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